Ok in the other question a gurl/ young woman was venting about how a boy asked her on a date or something to which she said no & yet he continued to ask & even to a point bug her about going out. My question is if women seem to often answer guys that ask them out that they dont like or feel the same for what should a guy do when they don't say anything & especially when they always claim they will be honest to the guy & send mix signals leading the guy to believe it was ok or the right time to try to take it to the next level. Obviously the guy should move on but I mean if a woman is in that situation even if she doesnt feel the same. Even if she wasnt want to be friends with the person anymore isn't better to just deal with it & answer instead of bailing or avoiding it especially though if you do want to try to be friends?
2007-03-10 19:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by mas8baller 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me answer this for all you idiots out there. The only reason why we would send mix signals is because we want to KEEP OUR OPTIONS OPEN. If i dont want to deal with a guy i tell him straight. Don't take a girl that's stalling seriously, she's already hooked on another guy. period.
2007-03-10 19:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by monika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of lost you there. If she's giving mixed signals she's probably not a woman. Let's differentiate right there. A girl is a girl and a woman is older and has more experience. People of all ages try to ignore point blank questions for various reasons. It certainly would be more fair to the guy if she gave an answer but sometimes a guy(even men) don't like the answer and continue regardless of whether she's outright clear to him. so we should just chalk it up to human nature. If you feel your being strung along turn the other way and don't get pulled in.
2007-03-11 04:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well women want guys to open up & be more upfront yet seem like it has to be all or nothing. Especially if you have been friends for a long time with the guy I just don't get why you wouldnt be honest with him & if he cant understand it then so be it but how horrible it must be when a guy actually cares about you LOL. I had a friend who had a live in boyfriend that could drive across town when she broke her leg. Later she told me she was single & when I when I mentioned missing my buddies she asked if I ment her to which i said yeah I was just being politically correct since I still thought she had a bf. She then thanked me for a card i sent her as I did every year on her bday saying that it was nice to know someone actually cared LOL. OH how horrible it must be. Oh well.
2007-03-11 05:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by bpeter3196 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this life you cannot expect other people to be perfect or to always see things exactly the way you do.
if a girl says "no" when you ask her out .. you have two choices: forget her, or wait two weeks and ask again.
2007-03-11 05:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if she says "no", she will hear such rude speech back, it will last her a lifetime.
2007-03-11 04:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by nev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋