ok so my mom met this guy on the internet who she has talked to for a couple years or so and has fell in love with him!!! now her and her boyfriend are wanting me to pack up and leave the one i love and my 2 lil sisters (they want to stay and live with their dad) and my 2 best friends that have been like my sisters since i was 7 yrs old!!! I already tried tellin her i dont want to leave but she said he has a good job that pays good money!!!!! I dunno what to do cuz i dont want to leave my friends,sisters,and the one im totally in love with just so she can go four states away to a man that she met over the internet!!! i know i sound selfish but i dont want to leave the most important people in my life!!!!! for a guy and his son that i never met before in my life soooooo what should i do cuz i dont have much time to think this over im leaving in about 4 months!!! and she just told me this about 5 months ago but i didnt beleive her !!!!! oh gawd i need so much help!!!!!
2007-03-10 19:39:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately, when you're a kid you move when your parents tell you to. Unless you're old enough to be on your own you don't get a say. sorry. the best thing to do is accept him and his son otherwise your making yourself miserable and it won't change anything. you will make new friends and still have the old so really your life will be more enriched. Life is about change now you just need to make it a positive one.
2007-03-10 19:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go where your parents tell you to go, that's it. If your dad will take you, and it's O.K. with your mom, fine. I don't believe in these on-line relationships and feel she really shouldn't take any of you into one unless she's sure of the guy. What if he's a child abuser? or a pedophile? your walking into a trap.
I can't believe your dad would allow your mom to take you into a situation that's unknown such as this, I do think she's wrong about this part of it, without finding out who he really is.
2007-03-10 19:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not selfish..if you want to stay really badly...could you live with your other sisters?
maybe suggest to your mom that you'll stay just in case things go bad with her new bf!
2007-03-10 19:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋