I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc
she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back to let me know she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i was busy all week so i called her at the end of the week but no answer. she text me a few days later saying she was having it hard and busy with work, but saying i should call her sometime during the day. considering the trends so far i am no fool - she will not answer.
whats the deal with her?
2007-03-10 19:33:03 · 20 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about her. She's hoping you'll lose interest.
2007-03-10 20:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Piggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the deal with you? She's a busy person too and you waited for a month to get in touch and then a week after she told you to give her a call the next day. She probably thinks you're not all that interested in her
2007-03-11 04:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why you are asking ...seems you have already made up your mind.
Call her again. She very possibly could be a very busy person. But when you talk with her don't sound negative, suspicious or accusing or you will ruin things. If a busy type wouldn't fit in your life style then it might be best if you find someone with a more flexible schedule.
2007-03-11 04:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are times when we have bad days , weeks and even months. having the month one myself and haven't been able to keep in touch with friends , much less new relationship prospects . i say give her at least one more chance . maybe find out when she takes lunch and go offer to take her out . if you really like her don't give up so easily . and give her the benefit of the doubt that she is having a hard week .
2007-03-11 04:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She keeps asking you to call if she really didn't want to she wouldn't bother. why she doesn't just call you instead of texting you is strange though. After missing each other so often I would think she would just take the initiative to call you. Are you sure she doesn't have a bf? I wouldn't bother anymore at this point.
2007-03-11 04:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone gets busy from time to time....are you calling her at the same time every day? Shes got your #....send her one more text, tell her *shes got your # if she wants to talk, have her call you* if she doesn't call you with in the week that you say that to her...its probably a lost cause.
Hope that helps. Is what I usually tell people that I have a hard time reaching. good luck.
2007-03-11 04:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Oracle Blackrose ( Pagan ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a little too forward by texting her right away with the I don't understand why your ignoring me statement. Right now shes probably scared your some kind of stalker. Back off for awhile or just let it go.
2007-03-11 04:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still wasting time??? Don't you get the picture here?? Doesn't sound right on my side of the fence---better try another female. STOP calling and whatever else you are doing. It ain't working!!!
2007-03-11 04:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying. It sounds like she's playing hard to get. If she was following you around at your friend's wedding, theres a high chance she's interested.
2007-03-11 04:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try again, cause she is probably just one of those girls who are really busy and have action packed lives. if not then she might not be interested, but u should defenetly keep trying
2007-03-11 04:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by cutie4444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God are you an asshole give her a chance...if she didnt answer you didnt need to text her if she did that to you you would be all pissed about it...try calling her...if it doesnt work ask her if you can help in any way
2007-03-11 04:38:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋