about 8 years ago, i had a friend with benifets while i had a gf (this gf is now my wife) i really liked that girl but i couldnt dump my gf cause our parents knew each other and i was afraid of what they would say, so i had to leave my friend with benifets and i just ignored her it ws really hard!! a few weeks ago my friend and i got into contact and i decided to go to holiday over at his house with my wife, when we landed at the airport he was waiting for us and he took us to his home, his wife was my friend with benifets and as soon as she realised who i was she just looked down, she avoided me for the 2 weeks i was there and never once spoke to me unless nesary, i still have feelings for her and i dont know what to do, i heard her having sex with my friend (her husband) and i just got angry and i wanted to hit him!! and she also just found out that she's pregnant!! i dont like my wife!! should i tell my friend with benifets that i love her? my friend really loves her but i lov mor
2007-03-10 23:28:53 · 14 answers · asked by zayed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you expect some amazing answer to enable you to painlessly dump your wife, dissolve your ex friends with benefits marriage, and allow you and her to be happily married? Heck, perhaps one of us can miraculously make her pregnancy disappear too. Buddy, you are dreaming. Your ex girlfriend has zero reason to not hate you. 8 years ago, rather than honestly break up with her, you just stopped all contact. The term is dumped. For another woman.(Who you certainly neglected to mention) So, what do you do? You say you don't like your wife. So, get divorced. As for your ex girlfriend. Do nothing. She IS married. Should you tell her or ask her anything? No. Since she didn't speak to you for the two week visit- you've gotten your answer.
2007-03-10 23:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, god I'm so sick of all you immiture people on the web. If they are happy then leave them alone. Be fair to your wife and get a divorce. Then stay out of any more relationships till you are mentally able to make wise decisions.
2007-03-11 01:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by joshandandreabean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me if you dont like your wife and you like his wife you will be breakin up a few relationships along the way. A freindship and 2 marriages ''wow''Lets just say you tell everybody involved and everyone gets pissed you might end up by yourself
2007-03-10 23:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past is past. Just go on with your life. Your both have responsibilities with your families. If ever she is pregnant, that is normal thing for a couple. Don't meddle anymore. Think the problem that may arise, but if your willing to fight for him againts all odds, then go for it...but then you never did before, how can you do it now???
2007-03-11 00:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by pink_blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts or what? Leave it alone. Leave her alone. You lived your life and dumped her now live with it. Let her have her baby and try to make her life with her new family a happy one. You would be a horrible and selfish person to try to destroy her life because YOU made a mistake. GET OVER IT!
2007-03-10 23:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone! she is married and having a baby. you are just miserable looking to break up a relationship.
i can't believe you would consider possibly breaking up a marriage based on an old fling that you haven't a clue if she is interested. women are different. i bet money she isn't interested in you at all. just ashamed.
2007-03-11 03:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the past. Live in present. That's the gift you deserve. Be practical n be happy and contented
2007-03-10 23:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sowmya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there my friend...just leave it alone...go back to your wife and your life...You are the one who left in the first place...she moved on and so should you
2007-03-12 02:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont love her more or you would have left your gf to be with her and could possibly be married. Leave her alone. She is happy.
2007-03-11 01:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Jennie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your an idiot. not much more can be said. you want her because she belongs to someone else. grow up, stay with your wife and leave her alone.
2007-03-11 04:12:17 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋