me & my wife want to put a bit more fun in to are night time activites were both a bit on the big side any suggestions would be nice ???
2007-03-10 23:13:10 · 18 answers · asked by roy m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she seemed fully content to me the other night
2007-03-10 23:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me sert the record straight here, i too used 2 b quite heavy well overweight was an understatement, but this should not affect your sex life. There are plenty of stores that cater for larger people. Why not but your wife some sexy lingere, try expermenting with watching porn together, involve toys and others items into foreplay. Im not happy with my body but once i put on a nurses uniform or some sort of sexy gear, you feel so much more beautiful. Im sure your wife will feel the same, aslong as you pay her compliments to boost her ego, it might be hard at first but stick ith it trust me it works. Also try being spontaneous, like unplanned sex, maybe if u r out having a meal or something together, tell her what you want 2 do 2 her when u get home, trust me the sexual tension will be immense and ull b ripping each others clothes off when u get home.
Plus the up side to loads of inventive sex is it burns off calories, who needs the gym eh? Good luck and mail me if u wanna chat more, chelle x
2007-03-13 10:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by MICHELLE T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Buy sex toys if you don't already have some. Spicing things up can also be done by real romantic things like candles and hot oil back massages etc. Blind fold her or tie her up so you have total control over pleasing her, just don't hurt her. They have books out that show different positions for big people. Just have fun that doesn't cause pain or jealousy to the other.
2007-03-11 07:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT bring in another person, things can go ver yvery wrong1
buy porn mags or videos, or be brave and tell (or write a note if bit embarrassed at 1st) each other what your ultimate fantasies are. agree beforehand that if either of you doesnt like a suggestion, then no offence will be taken (unless it really out there!!) and you wil politely decline!!
place soem mirrors in stragegic positions so you can see what you're doing to each other. maybe video it. talk dirty! buy sex toys for both of you.
and well done for wanting to keep sex life exciting!!
have fun and good luck
2007-03-11 07:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by hedgewitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always enjoy those adult board games. They're silly and it gets you laughing and giggling and just having fun together. And, of course, there might be things on there that you haven't tried before...so that's good, too. Or maybe watch porn together and imitate what's on the screen. Talk dirty to each other. Mutual masturbation. The list goes on and on...kinda hard to make suggestions when I don't know what you've already done.
2007-03-11 07:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by heather_chavous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Add me! Joking lol. Watch a bit of porn, that always adds a little zest. Get her to leave her sexiest high heels or knee high botts might do it too, or washing each other first in the shower, this is a personal favourite of mine, me and my husband ended up covered in soap shagging on the bottom of the bath with the shower raining on us, it was awesome, especailly coz we had candles and loud classical music blaring out. It was the closest I have ever had to 'movie sex', where everything is perfect and there;s a good soundtrack! To spice things up you just need to change one thing everytime, if you try too much, you will run out of things to do!
2007-03-11 07:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey and whipped cream are great. Role play is not bad either. You may deliver the package? Or ask for directions? or clean up the room for her in a tight little nothing...
How about outdoors frolicking?
Eat dinner off her stomach and other parts...the possibilities are endless.
2007-03-11 08:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the honey and whipped cream idea. Sounds like you need lettuce and cabbage. Start by both getting on a diet so you're somewhat attractive. That might help.
2007-03-11 08:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Pimp Daddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aim to use lovemaking for pleasure as well as fitness. Keep the duration of sessions as long as you both can. Get out of your comfort zones.
Add as much variety as possible to prevent boredom.
Good luck! Rob
2007-03-11 07:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Rob E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to know what you haven't tried....but mutual masturbation can be fun....or rent some videos and see what you might like to try...nice to see that you are working on things and keeping the sex alive...so many couples just get stuck in a rut...good luck
2007-03-11 07:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on what you've already tried...???
try carrying out a fantasy,,try using food ie; chocolate sauce or fresh cream,something sweet and sticky,or maybe send her off upstairs to 'start without you' and then quietly sneak in and watch/join in..
hope these ideas help..have fun.
2007-03-11 08:16:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋