my sister is 41 and having a long distant relationship.the problem is this..i cant stand him. i think?

Question

he is a liar. he has giving me alot of reasons to believe this.how can i do some checking up on him with out having to spend money. my sister moved away from him 2 years ago and he seemed to ease his way back into her life.he is a smooth talker.(of course he is a lawyer)so he is very good with words. my sister went on match.com when she first moved here and he found out and set up his own profile with a different picture of him so he could monitor her.he says he doesnt drink but u found a bottle of vodka in his bag when he came to visit her.also is there anyway he can tap into our computer to monitor whats going on and how can i find out.he also told her he was hit by a car and was knocked unconsious doent remember anything about it until he woke up in the hospital.he said they did a cat scan and then sent him home.i find that story fishy.if you have head trauma hospital keep you over night for observation.. i think. he has been getting a divorce for 3 years now.she knows how i feel

Answer 1

Head trauma: No, the hospital cannot force anyone to stay it they can walk and say they are okay. My cousin's skull was fractured, he went to the hospital bleeding and unconcious, they preformed a CAT scan, he got up said he was fine, and they sent him home. Died the next morning, from head swelling. CAN'T sue the hospital for the life of use.

Hacking: The best way to hack into a PC is from the location it self. Change your passwords frequently, in fact, do it now. Also, if/when he comes over, check your computer for any foreign devices, such as key katcher, and other various hacking materials. Remove them and confront him.

Lying: He is probably that is not confortable with his past, or his level of confidence. Lawyers are known to be able to bend truths, and manipulate facts. He is proably trying to hide the real him, I mean, common a long distance relationship, how close can you get? There is now way I am going to tell my deepest darkest secrets to someone I haven't even seen naked. So of course there is going to be ambiguity.

Answer 2

You just need to put on your thinking cap and start making some phone calls. If you know his last name then call others with the same last name and just ask about how he is doing you heard he was in a car accident and are concerned. Or call his place of employment and pretend you are interested in hiring him as an attorney, they should have an 800 number and you don't have to leave a return # right away just make sure he is really working. Yes when you have a head injury (due to a car accident) from an auto accident you are kept in the hospital at-least over night for observation and they run several test and get the results back before releasing you to be sure nothing serious was done. Think of your sister and you don't have to say anything to her yet, if you find out he is lying then waite until she is talking to him and then be around and mention something you found out about his past! Good Luck-!

Answer 3

Whew BIG Problems--I'm sorry for the both of you. Unfortunately, your sister is a grown woman. There are people who know how to tap into computers with some type of remote. You are correct, people who have head injuries are usually kept overnight. Your sis is safe as long as the relationship is long distance. It will cost you to have him investigated. But you can contact the Lawyer's Guild and check out his credentials though. Is he really a Lawyer?

Answer 4

sure. He have been given creepily infatuated, or perhaps got here to my state against my will when I dumped him. If I had given him my handle, there is not any doubt he might have went to my abode. yet while it wasn't creepy, it replaced into nonetheless painful. i would not reccomend it, except there's a garuntee of assembly quickly after, or there has been a gathering previously the dating, and you reside close adequate mutually.

Answer 5

forget it
if she is ok with him why are you bothering yourself

Answer 6

don't tell her how much of a jerk you think this guy is....that will push her towards him more.....