how can i know if my husband ever cheated on me?

Answer 1

Well, you could ask him ...but like I always say don't ask anything that you don't really want to know the answer to...Unless you have strong suspicions why would you want to rock the marriage boat??..Enjoy being married and having someone to love and be loved by...Life is short....

Answer 2

The sure sign is you think that you are going crazy. You are not going crazy. He may tell you that. The other thing is the way he kisses you and makes love to you. He brings you flowers. Another thing to keep in mind, married men are more experienced than single men in terms of love making.
The other woman is a by product to the married man. The married man will never leave his wife. If the wife finds out her husband is cheating. The husband 9 times out of 10 will break it off with the other woman. If you do find out he is cheating on you. It will be hard to ever trust him again. Good Luck
Ps Your phone will ring and when you answer the person will hang up the phone on you. It will happen quite a bit

Answer 3

Hun the only way you can know is if you straight up ask him. Which begs the question, are you looking for trouble? If he says that he did cheat, will you be emotionally ready to deal with that? If you feel strongly that he did cheat or have substantial evidence that he did then simply confront him. And what if really has not cheated and you ask him? Oh boy! The script can get flipped very quickly, which means he may think your asking him because you have been unfaithful! A women's intuition can be very strong but also very wrong at times. Nonetheless, be prepared for drama. HONESTLY THOUGH: if you just want to ask just because then leave it alone. Because it could fuel a much bigger fire. If you are a believer pray to God to reveal the truth to you(HE never lies!). The bible says what you do in the dark will always be brought to the light. So you may not find out today or tomorrow but you will find out! GOOD LUCK

Answer 4

You can't, unless you find concrete proof. People lie: partners and the "other woman". I suspected my boyfriend (now husband) of at least emotionally cheating when he did things like text at odd hours, lie about who it was, and when I saw the two of them together at his house and the chemistry was obvious- we broke up and they got together days afterwards- funnily enough it lasted 6 weeks until he saw me with someone else and realised he'd made a huge mistake. Unfortunately the damage was done and even though we got back together, that only lasted a few months, before I dumped him and we split for a year. Now we are married but certain things trigger my fears like texting etc. So sometimes gut fears are right. On the other hand a different girl also told me she slept with him during that time but she she only told me this after we got back together for good and she'd had a brief sexual relationship with him during our time apart and wanted him badly... and everyone knew it, so the jury's still out there. Which leads back to the point that some women lie too. The experience taught me that if I ever suspect again I will hire a private investigator. Don't snoop yourself- I've done it and it drives you crazy. Plus if they find out you've been checking they get defensive and will get even more secretive- even if they're doing nothing! Good luck.

Answer 5

If he admits it, or you catch him.If you suspect him call "cheaters".If you see he isnt cheating then you better quit dogging him or you WILL eventually drive him away.It is always cute and funny when a spouse gets a little jealous over something, maybe even endearing.However; when it is an obsession then it becomes unbearable to the recipient.I had a g/f once who was insanely jealous of me.I didnt cheat on her.One day I came over, there was no time for meeting up with anyone.It took the same amount of time to get there it always did from where I lived.I came in shae asked me"ok who is she".I didnt have a clue as to what she was talking about. I said who?She said you know the other woman.Her mom who was sitting there was in her 70's at the time and I said "ok Its your mom, we're in love..."she started to jump then realized me and her mom were laughing.She didnt know whether to laugh or kill someone.She just said "I'll eventually catch you!"The problem was there was no one to catch.Im glad I didnt marry her.I'd be miserable today.

Answer 6

Is there a reason that you feel he has or are you just being paranoid? Worrying that he may cheat will ruin your marriage. If you have REASON to believe he has, confront him with it but I would be sure there was just cause before throwing it out there. You may not like what comes back at you. Good luck!

Answer 7

The fact that you are questioning if your husband is or has cheated on you means that you do not trust him.Trust is everything in a marriage without trust you have nothing.You may want to re-evaluate your marriage.

Answer 8

I always know before I even have proof. My intuition tells me that something is wrong, and it's been correct every single time. Once I get that "feeling", I start looking and eventually I find the evidence that he's been cheating. It never fails....intuition is something that you should NEVER ignore, because it's your internal warning system letting you know that something isn't right. Mine is never wrong.

Answer 9

The best way to find out is to have him take a lie detector test and to prove either way... You can take him on the Maury show and have this done. Good luck to ya!

Answer 10

a woman can tell when her husband is cheating.the sign are often right infront of her face.but many refuse to acknoledge them and totally act suprise when they find out that their husband is cheating.u know your man and u can tell when things change.