I have quite a few mates but I feel I'm losing some of them.
I was going round to Art with them and 1 of my other mates after form. Then 1 of them said "sorry Abby we have to go somewhere b4 Art n u can't come" I had to follow them coz it's the only way 2 get 2 art. They didn't go anywhere and I think they just sed it 2 get rid ov me. Also they tend to run off after class if I am with them. Also they have lots of 'private chats' and leave me out ov groups. I've neva been nasty 2 them. What shall i do?
2007-03-10 00:13:32 · 5 answers · asked by xoxprincessabbyxox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't need mates that treat you like this.
2007-03-10 00:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Give them some space, take this opportunity to make some new friends.If your always with the same friends you NEVER know how much better a freind you are missing because you havent taken the time to meet them.Then ask yourself, how do others see me, write down the things you say to tohers, read them at the end of the day as if it were someone esle saying them, then ask "do I really sound like that?"Be honest.If you complain a lot, that could be the problem.Then again maybe they want to be by theirselves for a bit.Theres things each will share with you they wouldnt share with the other and vice versa.Dont take it to heart,its just life.
2007-03-10 08:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all try and see what are the things that you do and they don't like, try to change if it doesn't change the situation well then you tried your best, maybe you should start treating them the way they treat you or just keep on walking life goes on, you will find new friends and remember friends are born, not made and the only way to have a friend is to be one.
Good luck
MAKE TEA NOT WAR
2007-03-10 08:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite truly, stop worrying and find other people who WANT to include you!
the time spent worrying adds nothing to yr life, and neither does clinging to people who arent treating u like a friend
its hard, but maybe there is something that happened between you all or maybe you all are just growing apart...
doesnt matter in the end really...what matters is u surround yrself with people are feelin you, diggin you, and respect you
good luck...at that level of schooling social relationships can be perplexing, to say the best...dont give it too much mor thought..focus on yr other mates and have FUN!
2007-03-10 08:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by kinduvabrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and get a new set of mates or pals to keep you company. You need to realise that no relationship is eternity. Learn to accept that.
2007-03-10 08:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋