there's this guy whom, i am really close with. we hang out together, talk and stuff. well, he has his girl, but he's from another school. we talk about her rarely. i know he's off limits, but i just want to be with him. he annoys me in those cute ways and even though he does annoy me, i don't care, i like him. he's the one who comes to me and sits beside me. we know what we do. he didn't even want me to go to the party because he said that i might get drunk there. he wasn't allowed to the party though. and i heard from some people that he isn't with his girl now. what do i do?
2007-03-10 00:19:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you sure that he's not with his girl now? Because if he still is, then just move on and wish them luck (I know that'll be hard to do but it's better that way, trust me). If he's not with this girl anymore, then grab the chance girl! Don't be afraid to show your feelings! You mentioned earlier that you and this guy are close, right? Then it won't be too hard for you! You can just tell him your feelings. I know that after that, it will be kinda awkward but that's just how it is at first. If you don't have the confidence to tell him, then just tell him through actions. Give him hints that you like him.
2007-03-10 00:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by (>.<) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Darling, just ask him straight out, but in a soft sweet girlie way....Are you still with your girlfriend? He's not off limits until he's married honey, you'll find that out when you get to the real world...In the meantime, just enjoy being young and have fun....its not as serious as you think...be confident...dont wait until you're 35 like the rest of us to gain confidence in life to ask for what you want...Whats the worst thing that can happen? Just ask him if he is interested in going out with you as a boyfriend, then before he answers, lean over and kiss him passionately...be daring...All he can do is say no...big deal...you're not going to die....its all a part of growing up and of life....Either way, you havent murdered anyone....you should walk around with your head held high no matter what anyone says...do you really care what everyone else thinks? Well if you do, you shouldnt.....Be cool, dont sleep around or get pregnant, study hard so you dont end up a loser on the dole, and tell him you like him as more than a friend...just do it....its not as bad as it seems....life's too short....
2007-03-10 08:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sterglaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said u guys are close and can talk about stuff,then ask him about this girlfriend if they are still together.tell him in a joking way that u have a crush on him and see how he reacts.i think he likes u .
2007-03-10 08:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by macy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him... maybe he is also interested in you... like mine...
usually guys are open to talk about this part... some... heh..
2007-03-18 07:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by PaZ KarL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋