Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

Husband is abusive & possibly bipolar. Has low self-esteem. We're trying counseling. I don't think he'll change, only get better for a while, or will change but it will take so long, & I have already been through so much for so long. He asked if he should move out & I said yes. The next day, he changed his mind. If I leave & take our daughter with, will that look bad in the court's eyes because I'm taking her out of her home? I feel so guilty & like I'm giving up. Should I trust my guilt or my feeling that things won't change or will take too long? I think I'm only staying because I feel sorry for him. If I never had to deal with him again, I would just leave but, because of our daughter, I will have to continue to deal with him. I also heard most abusive man don't quit, only stop for a while. I've wanted to leave for at least 3 years. I haven't had the guts, or he talks me into coming back. He's depressed & talks about suicide. I'm afraid my leaving will trigger an attempt.

2007-03-10 01:52:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This girl Im dating, told me she gets very clingy and she doesnt understand why she gets like that. I thought it was just a little clingy. But she calls me every day which is fine, but when I dont answer, she gets mad, and Im like in the restroom using #2 when I dont answer. Or I leave my cell charging and Im away from my phone so I dont hear it and she gets mad. What do I do? why do girls get like that?

2007-03-10 01:51:28 · 14 answers · asked by deaftonez 2 in Singles & Dating

my mom keeps asking me, how she will call the mother of my husband to be.. i know his mom will be my mother in-law but my mom doesnt know what to call her. thanks please help.

2007-03-10 01:49:22 · 11 answers · asked by eyw_eyw 1 in Weddings

2007-03-10 01:49:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

just wants to be friends with me, for now, what should i do? should i keep my distance until she figures out who she wants, or should i talk to her as much as possible, to get her to be more into me? im also wondering how wrong it is to be pursuing a chick who is in a relationship

2007-03-10 01:49:09 · 16 answers · asked by im_not_achilles 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm sure a lot of men are afraid of making an *** out of themselves when it comes to flirting with other women. The flirting usually involves initiating a conversation or simply asking her out.

However, I wonder if women feel vulnerable if the man comes across as cocky, arrogant, or simply nice/shy?

Would it offend you if a guy simply went up to you and ask for your name? How would you react if you were initially/physically attracted to him? Or if you weren't physically/initially attracted to him?

Help me!

2007-03-10 01:48:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 01:47:54 · 15 answers · asked by Rabin B 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy at school... his name is darian. the problem is my name is daria. whenever we have parties, our friends are always like hey it's darian and daria... lol. some of his friends even call him daria as a nickname. i think that he likes me too but he's hesitant because our names are so similar and us getting together would make for a lot of jokes... do you think this relationship could work out?

2007-03-10 01:47:45 · 18 answers · asked by nahtehc 1 in Singles & Dating

I didnt say anyting. But after talking to my friend Brit I kind figured what he was doing with them. My question is should I tell him to stop stuff or just tell mom? I don't want him to get into alot of trouble but dont know what to do. It's kind of an icky situation. just so you know the stuff he had was 2 of my undies. Thanks for help.

2007-03-10 01:46:59 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda R 1 in Family

My frined is mad at me and i said i was sorry for what i did. Its nothing bad but she thinks that im acting all that. its just the way me and my cousin talk around each other. SHe won't let me explain or anything. She wont even look at me. Shes also convinced my other frined to be mad at me now. Now i only have 1 frind and she wont say anythng becasue shes friends with the other two. Help!

2007-03-10 01:45:56 · 2 answers · asked by morgieDawn*(: 2 in Friends

2007-03-10 01:45:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...anyone ever been there? The sex was pretty good (kinda quick though), but then he just rolled over right afterwards and now he acts like he's angry and uncomfortable around me. Before, he would tease me, and do fun things (picked me up over his shoulder, etc.), but now, nada. He was always quiet-spoken, but this just feels weird. I feel like just coming right out and asking him, but don't feel like I could get a straight answer. Wondering what I did wrong??

:(

2007-03-10 01:45:06 · 12 answers · asked by Ahem 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 01:44:52 · 13 answers · asked by Maria R 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 01:44:21 · 13 answers · asked by im_not_achilles 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this Lady online one year ago, at the time she was quite a catch, she has moved in and boy did the baggage follow soon after. She is addicted to pot, unmotivated, lazy, will not get a job to help me out with expenses, Has nearly shut sex down all the way. Will not talk about this without being Dramatic. Allows way too much of her family into our business. I own my own home and make all the money yet she is critical of the way I spend my money.

2007-03-10 01:44:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can anyone help us. Due to this i am having erection problem. Penis is not in a regular steady state. I also use to masturbate too much. We are afraid that can we have a baby ? Sincere answers will be highly appreciated.

2007-03-10 01:43:02 · 6 answers · asked by AAABBBKSACC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, this guy i like, likes me, he doesn't know i know he likes me. (i konw b/c he told my friend.) then my friend asked me if i liked him. okay, last night we all hung out and we kinda flirted, but i had to leave early b/c i had something to do this morning, and so, she most likely told him after i left that i like him. so, what do i do when i see him sunday at church? thanks!!

2007-03-10 01:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 01:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by BINH T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't see why and I never have. I think it's a joke. I think it's not worth anything, and that it's better being single. I like being single because I don't have to deal with all the drama and all that other crap. I could drink and live in the Carribean if I was single. But if I was married, I couldn't. I couldn't imagine having to deal with kids either. I hate little kids, and I feel bad for my parents because they had to deal with me when I was a little brat and my brother. But then again, it's their faul they had me. Kids are one of the common reasons why people get married. I just don't like romance, but it intrigues me why so many people want to ruin their lives by getting married. Your life is basically over after you get married. After you get married all you hear is US, US, US, AND WE WE WE. I would hate that. It's no longer about me, which I don't like.

2007-03-10 01:42:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alrite I'm n 7th grade and I've been seeing this dude since December and the most we've done is hold hands. I'm really bored with him and he trys to funny when its not the rite time! At the movies I said I was tired and he go well if you get tired my shoulders rite here but in a really weird voice like he didn't wanna sound romantic. I asked mom bout it she says to think bout it. But yesterday I was on the bus with him and usually we have a big group of ppl to hang out with in the gym and non of them were there except me and him. He was getting on my nerves soooo bad! I wanted to smack him, tell him to shut up, and go away! but yesterday I was also having a bad day! Also the Crystal Ball is coming up at our school and I kinda wanna go alone to hang with the girls. Mom said I can still hang with the girls there and have a boifriend. Idk Should I or Should I not? why?

2007-03-10 01:42:05 · 14 answers · asked by softballplayer913 3 in Singles & Dating

She just spends all day asking and answeing questions!! Falling behind with all her work and her house is a mess!!

2007-03-10 01:41:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Girls, which of these cars would impress you more?

a) A new Honda Civic?

b) A new Mazda 3, probably in hatchback form?

Yes, I know that there is more to attractiveness than the car a guy drives, but lets stick to the issue here.

2007-03-10 01:40:20 · 16 answers · asked by dave_taylor1900 1 in Singles & Dating

i am always right after all lol

2007-03-10 01:39:41 · 33 answers · asked by kaye j 3 in Singles & Dating

What should i do. Shes leaving on Thursday.

2007-03-10 01:39:24 · 9 answers · asked by Milly 2 in Friends

2007-03-10 01:37:29 · 21 answers · asked by Rabin B 1 in Singles & Dating

i turn him down for the first time because i did not realized how much i love him ,the time he was asking my hand in marriage was to fast,the must reason is that he is a muslim which i thougth my family will not accept him.
now the reason why i wont him is that after the wife he still wont me and is like am always there for him at any point of time.as am tolking now the job he is doing am the one that got it for, coming down for the work he has no accomodation and i have accommodated him till he saves some money to get a house. this same man went on opretion withno money i have to give the last that i had for him.so with all this the love grew till the level where we can say buye to each one.he said he can't leave the first woman becaus of the family and he love's her too.he said i can be the second wife with familly marriage but the first one will have the court marriage because she is first and the family too is another reason.please help me of what to do,i love' he love's me too

2007-03-10 01:37:06 · 3 answers · asked by passoko camille 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 01:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Looking through my boyfriend's phone. He was acting a bit strange with me so my insecurities kicked-in. He gave me the option of leaving and never coming back. I want to stay cause i love him. He was more upset about the principle than actually looking through his phone. Well things ever be the same again?

2007-03-10 01:36:30 · 13 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating

I just wonder how many of you girls are watching your husband, boyfriend cooking right now. My husband is wearing a plastic apron with strawberries on it.

2007-03-10 01:35:43 · 14 answers · asked by delta 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex's friends are saying that he likes my bff, and it sounds like that would be a possibility. My ex and I aren't talking anymore, and I still like him. He's not worth the time, and I am trying to keep myself busy and get over him. He told me that he likes this other girl named Nikki, but people still say he likes my bff!!! What do I do, from what it sounds like, they both like eachother. But my bff wouldn't tell me if she liked him because she knows how crushed I would be!

2007-03-10 01:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating