I met this Lady online one year ago, at the time she was quite a catch, she has moved in and boy did the baggage follow soon after. She is addicted to pot, unmotivated, lazy, will not get a job to help me out with expenses, Has nearly shut sex down all the way. Will not talk about this without being Dramatic. Allows way too much of her family into our business. I own my own home and make all the money yet she is critical of the way I spend my money.
2007-03-10 01:44:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a parasite.
Tell her that you don't love her and she needs to move out so that you can get on with your life. This is the hardest but probably the best.
Or give her a list of ultimatums and a deadline that will be sure to piss her off to the degree that she will just move out.
2007-03-10 01:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as a graceful exit from a relationship if it's not mutual. Good luck.
By the way, you have poor taste in women. You let her move in without finding out the kind of woman she is first (addicted to pot, lazy, unmotivated etc.)? Hope you learn from this.
2007-03-10 01:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but there is NO way of doing this gracefully....just tell her that it isn't working out and brace yourself....whatever she does or says act like an adult and don't let her drag you into a fight....give her a reasonable amount of time to make other arrangements and safeguard your important belonging's....next time remember that moving in together is an important decision and should not be taken lightly...you can avoid having to do this by making better choices in the beginning....best of luck to you...
2007-03-10 01:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Erinyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i hate to tell you but there may be no way out od this one gracefully. You will have to tell her how you feel and ask her to leave. If she changes and you still lik here then great and if not then let her leave. What ever you do you will have to tell her how you feel at some pint so tell her now .
2007-03-10 01:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by texbamsc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-01-25 23:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is always graceful. Even if its just, "I don't think this is working out."
2007-03-10 01:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by rascals2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no graceful way so just kick her out and if she doesnt leave go out of town and call the police on her
2007-03-10 01:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of this freeloader pronto.
2007-03-10 01:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her your gay or that you have a dose...either will or should put her off
2007-03-10 01:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by elshadon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what they detest.
2007-03-10 01:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋