i turn him down for the first time because i did not realized how much i love him ,the time he was asking my hand in marriage was to fast,the must reason is that he is a muslim which i thougth my family will not accept him.
now the reason why i wont him is that after the wife he still wont me and is like am always there for him at any point of time.as am tolking now the job he is doing am the one that got it for, coming down for the work he has no accomodation and i have accommodated him till he saves some money to get a house. this same man went on opretion withno money i have to give the last that i had for him.so with all this the love grew till the level where we can say buye to each one.he said he can't leave the first woman becaus of the family and he love's her too.he said i can be the second wife with familly marriage but the first one will have the court marriage because she is first and the family too is another reason.please help me of what to do,i love' he love's me too
2007-03-10 01:37:06 · 3 answers · asked by passoko camille 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is using you. Dump him. He loves his wife.
He has had your money and now is the time for
you to let him go.
2007-03-10 01:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know one thing for sure. I wouldn't be marrying NO ONE to play second best!
If he really cared, and loed about you, it wouldn't matter to him what his family thought and he would tell his "first bride" to step aside.
Do you really want to be married to someone who, basically, cheats on you with "his own" wife???
How messed up would that be?
2007-03-10 09:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by dollbabe92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2007-03-10 09:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋