...anyone ever been there? The sex was pretty good (kinda quick though), but then he just rolled over right afterwards and now he acts like he's angry and uncomfortable around me. Before, he would tease me, and do fun things (picked me up over his shoulder, etc.), but now, nada. He was always quiet-spoken, but this just feels weird. I feel like just coming right out and asking him, but don't feel like I could get a straight answer. Wondering what I did wrong??
:(
2007-03-10 01:45:06 · 12 answers · asked by Ahem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys are so cool, even with the blunt answers, thanks!! I'm embarrassed now too, but the more likely of us to bring it up (I'm outgoing). Maybe I should buy him some beer and we can loosen up and talk about it....
2007-03-10 01:56:32 · update #1
And he started teasing me again (slapped my butt, lol), so there's hope. Geez, I hate being vulnerable, but it appears I like this guy....doh!!
2007-03-10 02:03:24 · update #2
Everyone's saying he didn't like having sex with you. Maybe HE's the one who feels like he didnt perform.
You have to say something. If you want to continue having casual sex with him then just tell him the truth, "I'm feeling kind of weird about the other night because you're acting so different. I had fun and wouldn't mind messing around again but I don't want it to ruin our roommate situation."
And if you don't want to have sex with him again but want to stay friends/roommates then tell him that too. Same as above but, you know, leave the "do it again" part out!
Good luck!
2007-03-10 01:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by jered_gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's done with you now. Welcome to the real world of "what guys really want from females". Some girls think that by having sex with a guy will strengthen a friendship and eventually turn it into a "relationship" but nothing could be further from the truth. Learn from this lesson and be careful next time.
2007-03-10 01:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did not do anything wrong.
It sounds to me like he probably thinks it shouldn't
have gone that far. By sleeping with him is has
put your frienship onto a different level.
He is embarrassed and does not know how
you are feeling about the situation.
Talk to him and let him know how you feel
and would like things to go back to how they were.
Good Luck
2007-03-10 01:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure the sex was fine for him. dont worry. im a guy and if i ejaculate the sex was good. lol. he just feels awkward around you now. im a quite guy myself so i can understand how he might feel. it would help him to get over his shyness if you brought it up with him. good luck
2007-03-10 01:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way it sounds is in the past he had feelings for you
but now he has lost them so its only for sex..
you need to talk to him.
Any answer is better than no answer at all :]
good luck <3
2007-03-10 01:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go ahead and I add to that by saying that doesn't give you the right to have an answer from me.
2016-03-28 22:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's him. Not you. Do something to make him smile after sex. He might want affection from you too.
2007-03-10 01:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the sex wasnt good enough for him
2007-03-10 01:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the sex wasnt so great for him, you should do your homework practice makes perfect!!!
2007-03-10 01:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by Breaker's Lax Rules!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes a guy.
all he wanted from the beginning was to sleep with you, and he got that.. so now he doesnt have to try to please you anymore.
unfortunately, thats the way guys are, sorry.
2007-03-10 01:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by brown_eyed_girl_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋