Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

My bf and I are in love with each other, but I have to move from UK to LA for a job. He's 33 and a contract worker earning 6 didgits anually now, but maybe he won't be having his job in half an year. He took me to his parents for Xmas, to Iceland and Spain for holiday, to his best friends wedding...and is a comitment phobe, saying it'll be my decision to stay if I want to. He seems not to want to take any responsibility yet.
I'm having a good offer from LA, more money, a house and a car.
Now I have an exbf who's a CEO of an international company, who still loves me after 2 yrs. He wants me back, and although we have every thing in common, including future goals, I don't find him more attractive than my current bf.
Should I leave my current bf with broken heart, settle into a new life in the States, and get back with the billionare, or stay in UK, struggle to get visa and work, struggle life but be with the one I love now...if I was you?

2007-03-10 02:50:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there is this boy at school that i really like and he acts like he likes me but he tells everyone he doesn't . Every time he sees me he blushes and looks at the ground and smiles . His friends look at me in weird ways and when he found out i liked him he started being nice to all the people i hang out with . so do u think he likes me ?

2007-03-10 02:50:20 · 13 answers · asked by sugark93 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im 16, im pretty funny and im very athletic. im generally outgoing and im up for pretty much anything. im a very nice caring person, i pretty much never lie and feel bad about it.
i play video games, but im but im not a dork about it

im smart
i get lazy with some things
i drink
i play basketball, soccer, tennis, i snowboard and surf
i also am not a poser/dbag/tool in anyway and i dont fit into a specific class that you could group me in. im my own person
i would say i get quiet sometimes, but i wouldnt call it being shy

ok so heres my pic, its a year old and personally i think its a little weird but its the most recent on this comp so please be honest and rate it and me by everything i told you

http://s162.photobucket.com/albums/t245/aspire12321/?action=view¤t=4444444.jpg

2007-03-10 02:49:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-10 02:48:08 · 16 answers · asked by Your Mom 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 02:47:52 · 26 answers · asked by nanners 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

His girlfriend is a *****. she treats him horribly and convinces him to basically change himself for her. she constantly cheats on him and he has cheated on her in the past. also, they fight all the time..

me and this guy have been reallyyy good friends for a while and we're always hanging out together. this year, we have a lot of classes together, so its just natural that we've been spending a lot more time together too..
and we flirt alllll the time.
in the past he has told his friends that he just likes to have someone to flirt with. 2 mutual friends know that i like him, and have told me that its blatantly obvious. so i know that he knows that i like him.

also, for the past month or so him and his gf have been fighting even more, and more often that not its about me.
i've heard ppl say that they are on the verge of breaking up.

i have tried getting over him.. but that doesnt work.
so what do i do?

2007-03-10 02:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by brown_eyed_girl_ 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy that i sat beside at a concert. He goes to my friends church. I'm pretty sure he likes me but I don't know for sure. I'm afraid to talk to him because I don't know him very well. My friend is trying to find out for me but it hasn't been working very well. Should I go and talk to him or keep getting my friend to do it for me? Thanks!

2007-03-10 02:46:47 · 4 answers · asked by aLwAyS n LoVe 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been told many times that I'm beautiful. So why is that the guys who show interest in me are ugly men 30+ years old? Most of the cute boys around my age ignore me.
I don't even look older for my age. People tell me all the time that I look 15 even though I'm almost 18. Is it cause I'm really thin and flat chested?

2007-03-10 02:45:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

arseholes. they will tell girls anything to get them into bed,cheat on you or beat you do you love being in control what is really going through your mind when your doing all this i know there is some nice blokes out there but why are you such womanisers? im curious to know?

2007-03-10 02:45:31 · 16 answers · asked by sexy girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for example, it would always be me that has to do the asking out. But i really don't like doing that all the time, it makes me feel like i'm always in control, and i hate that feeling. i want us to share powers. I asked her this before and she says she doesn't know why. Other than her possible thoughts of wanting breaking up, can there be other reasons behind this? like psychologically?

2007-03-10 02:43:38 · 6 answers · asked by arcamite633 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 02:43:14 · 5 answers · asked by Babylunita 1 in Family

2007-03-10 02:43:02 · 11 answers · asked by color.me.blak 1 in Friends

2007-03-10 02:42:16 · 16 answers · asked by jannat k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister has pretty much abandoned her 3 small children and her husband. She started talking to this guy online and now they are in a relationship for the past I'd say 5 months but I think she is now on drugs and I'm worried the other night she came to my house wanting money after she got $600 and didn't give her kids a penny I didn't give her any then 2 nights ago she said she was hungry so I bought her something to eat she is now pregnant by this guy and I want her away from him I can see why she don't want her kids around him but to not do anything for them her youngest wont even be 1 until july 4th I'm afraid if I say something she'll stop talking to me and I wont know where she is I want to help her I think I should ignore her and not help her at all so maybe she'll have to help herself but what would you do I want my sister back.

2007-03-10 02:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by fluttergirl2004 5 in Family

This boy that I'm just got over, wants to go with me. But the problem is that he has a girl and he's not planning on breakin up with her! He wants me to be on the side while he claims his girl. Now I'm starting to have feelings for him again and I really want him to break up with his girl but I know he wont. His girl also found out about him liking me but she doesn't know the whole story! She keeps asking me to tell her but I dont want to be the one to start drama.I dont know what to do!!

2007-03-10 02:41:22 · 9 answers · asked by hot rod 1 in Singles & Dating

he says one thing thn does another we went out for a long time he stilll has feelings for me and wants to make this better but he makes it worse wen his with her and he says there only friends. but i think thts a lie cuz she likes him and making roomers and he doesnt know what do i do
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2007-03-10 02:41:17 · 27 answers · asked by cooky 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 02:40:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have read about a lot of girls getting spanked by boyfriends but I actually enjoy to be the one doing the spanking. I have dated few guys that have not had many shortcomings and I find spanking is a good way to get my point accross. I also find it reduces stress and if I choose, it can also help improve things in the bedroom but first and foremost I spank to punish. I am half Vietnamese and think it may be a cultural thing that I enjoy spanking boys. However, I wonder if any Filipina sisters have similar feelings and if any put the idea into action. I know this is strange but it dos not seem right it is just the males who gain pleasure from giving a spanking.

2007-03-10 02:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by Skyblue Princess 3 in Singles & Dating

my gf and i have been going out for about 3 years now. about 5 months ago, we started losing trust in each other. at this point, we have lost all trust i believe. she doesnt trust me, i dont trust her. she loves me alot and i love her a lot too. she tries to control me but my mentality doesnt allow for that; so we fight all the time. for the past 2 weeks, we have made up and broken about everyday. now is getting to me emotionally and i am afraid that would affect my "1 month old career". you think i should quit this relationship and concentrate on my career?

2007-03-10 02:38:31 · 21 answers · asked by Lord_poseidon 1 in Singles & Dating

find a happy medium. I have male friends who want to see me every day to make love to me, but they don't want to hang out, go to a movie, have dinner, go dancing. I'm definitely not ugly, and because of the demand it seems I satisfy men very well sexually. I am a very independent woman and very outspoken. Some of my male friends love me alot but there never seems to be a 'relationship' that develops. What could be happening here?

2007-03-10 02:37:51 · 16 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Singles & Dating

my violent x partner is taking me 2 court for visitation im fighting against it obviously im really worried about it everyone i have spoke to said they only go 2visitations about once or twice and give up seeing them have you had any experience with this sort of thing?

2007-03-10 02:36:53 · 8 answers · asked by sexy girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what make you feel sexy ?

2007-03-10 02:36:28 · 5 answers · asked by titifricotin 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband smokes pot and drinks beer everyday i dont remember the last time i saw him sober he works out of town almost every week and still comes in on friday drunk and high ive told him i dont feel like we are even husband and wife but i doesnt matter i don't know how to get out our children are grown but one is in college i cant help her alone and he wont help if i leave

2007-03-10 02:36:01 · 11 answers · asked by lovebeach1968 1 in Marriage & Divorce

stop complaining your life sucks. Life is tough, it's just something you have to deal with. My life isn't the best right now either but I know I just have to deal.

2007-03-10 02:35:52 · 4 answers · asked by your wonderwall 5 in Singles & Dating

My ex is like,"I'm sorry for being mean to you, lets be friends again." So we were friends. 2 days later, I say hi to him and he tells me to go away. Its been like this for a while, but I still like him!!! So should I play along on the days when he's nice, and ignore him when he's rude, or should I leave him in the dust?

2007-03-10 02:35:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

E-mail you an apology for something they said ,then email a copy of their apology to someone that had NOTHING to do with the situation?......(they knew about it,but it didn't involve them)..

2007-03-10 02:34:46 · 9 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Friends

I upset my girlfriend by having pictures of women on my computer..not graphic. And she said that it really hurt her and she cant go on being hurt before. And she said she doesnt want to be with me anymore. Please help.

2007-03-10 02:34:27 · 25 answers · asked by tom w 1 in Singles & Dating

not what i used to go for in looks.... if he can make me laugh then im pretty much done!!!!?

2007-03-10 02:33:56 · 11 answers · asked by SGPearlGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

1. http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=Ah2zvVCdK8B47z0aQG_faBfD7BR.?show=62Oe1mlBaa

2.

http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AoTthNew9KrJgZZEi_ikBNAAAAAA?show=75f93bd08626bddfd2f96b337094c8d6aa

which one is the devil ,which one is the angel?

2007-03-10 02:32:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating