I upset my girlfriend by having pictures of women on my computer..not graphic. And she said that it really hurt her and she cant go on being hurt before. And she said she doesnt want to be with me anymore. Please help.
2007-03-10 02:34:27 · 25 answers · asked by tom w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they were only pictures of celebrities like j lo and carmen electra but i had them before i even knew her.
2007-03-10 02:53:42 · update #1
you need to amke her feel special again, she feels like a bit of trust and respect has gone for her, do your best to show her she is the only one for you.!!
2007-03-10 02:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want a girlfriend that is that insecure. After all, if you could get with J lo or any other Celeb, you probably wouldn't be seeing her to begin with. Don't sweat the small stuff, she needs to get over it and if she can't you need to move on and find a girl who is alot more mature and less sensative. My Husband has calanders and pictures of models in his shop, and for quiet some time he had a calander of Victoria Secret models hanging in our bedroom. I really don't see the problem with it. It isn't as if women don't like looking at men they will never have.
2007-03-10 03:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest i think your girlfriend has over reacted a little, because every guy likes celebrities its only natural.
I think you should try to talk to her about this and maybe find out if its something else that is maybe bugging her. I mean she could have been hurt before by a guy that's maybe cheated on her so now she is just being over cautious.
Just talk it out with her and tell her these were photos you had before you met her and that if they really bug her then you will delete them, don't let her fling a good relationship away over some silly pics.
Good luck xxx
2007-03-10 03:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have said you will change the pics to cars or animals and she still is not happy then it must be something else. This is not the real reason she is upset, there might be someone else and this is just a perfect excuse to get rid of you,find out or move on! Good luck
2007-03-10 02:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is to get rid of the pics being that it bothers her. She probably has been hurt in the past and thinks that you might want someone else then her. Talk to her openly and honestly about it. Ask why does it bother her and that you will get rid of them because you care for her and that she is the only one in your life. I wouldnt like it if my man had pics on his computer of other girls. Looking at girly magazines is another story cause he doesnt know them but possible that he (you. which your g/f might be thinking) knows them and wants them instead.
Good luck.
2007-03-10 02:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that the pics on your computer are being used as an excuse to avoid whatever the real reasons are for wanting to part company. If the pics on your computer are not acquaintances of yours personally and they are just pics of pretty women, your gf has other issues. Women are not threatened by pics of anonymous women.
2007-03-10 02:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by jlsmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is much more to the story that you are not sharing. Just because you have pictures of women on your computer is not going to compromise an entire relationship...
Who are these women on your computer? Girls you are talking to as "friends" or just pictures of people you don't know but that they just look appealing.
Call her bluff my friend "act as if" you don't care. Tell her i'm sorry you feel that way but i think you are way overreacting. And if thats the way you feel then ok. Then leave her ALONE for a couple of days. I guarantee you she will sit down and scratch her head and come back to you.
She knows that she has "got you" its time you show her that she doesn't
Hope this helps
2007-03-10 02:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ontime 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it was of women you were talking to and they sent pictures then yes I too would be upset but if it was of famous women then I wouldn't be bothered. Perhaps it was just the icing on the cake so to speak and that she was going to end it anyway. You need to talk to her and apologise for upsetting her but it sounds as though she has made her mind up
2007-03-10 02:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is disillusioned with you because of the fact some ladies do no longer want their boyfriend to talk to ANY ladies at worried with any reason. unhappy particularly that they may be that insecure and untrusting whether it particularly is a actuality. Why is she letting somebody else - which you under no circumstances talked to formerly - study a private letter between you and her. that stands out as the difficulty that stricken me. What does this pal could do inclusive of your courting and why is she examining this letter? And what precisely did she say you wrote to her on facebook? there is extra here than you in user-friendly terms talked to somebody she's acquaintances with on facebook i think of.
2016-09-30 11:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have relations with these women, and why do u have pictures of women on your computer, knowing darn well, that us women are going get pissed off by that, irregarldess if they are graphic or not? But, you need to talk to her, and she still doesn't listen its time to move, maybe you guys are not meant to be.
2007-03-10 02:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by muslimah4life91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why did you have pictures of another woman on there in the first place? Just get her a bouqet of flowers and that'll clear everything up.
2007-03-10 02:39:25 · answer #11 · answered by mariah!:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋