This boy that I'm just got over, wants to go with me. But the problem is that he has a girl and he's not planning on breakin up with her! He wants me to be on the side while he claims his girl. Now I'm starting to have feelings for him again and I really want him to break up with his girl but I know he wont. His girl also found out about him liking me but she doesn't know the whole story! She keeps asking me to tell her but I dont want to be the one to start drama.I dont know what to do!!
2007-03-10 02:41:22 · 9 answers · asked by hot rod 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
level with the girl and tell the guy to take a hike, dog. he does not deserve you or the other girl for that matter if he wants a "girl on the sly"
2007-03-10 02:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by leroy_w_jackson 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let's be clear here, YOU did not start or create this drama - he did.
He is a jerk! He has no respect for you or his girl! He wants you to just sit around waiting until he can "throw you a crumb" when he has time? He wants to have a girl and cheat on her, with you?
Have some SELF RESPECT! YOU deserve SO much better than this jerk! And so does his girl.
Tell the girl what is going on and walk away from him. He is trouble and heartache - shut the door and don't let him bring that crap into your life.
No matter how much you think you like him, you will look back later and be very glad you cut him out of your life. You can just sit back and watch the pain, chaos and bitterness he ends up stuck in due to his crappy, selfish, immature choices.
2007-03-10 10:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Just Curious 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't want to be a second person in his life. Just get rid of him and keep going and find somebody else.
2007-03-10 10:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not go near him danger alert you are going to get your self being the girl on the side plus you will seem a little needy like you need him that much you will be his girl on the side you will get a reputation!
2007-03-10 10:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drama is never good. sounds like he just wants sex...c'mon you're better than that. if he cared....really cared he be w/you and not her and there'd only be you! he's playing you like a spare tire when the other tire goes flat he has a spare to fall back on. Forget that chump and find a guy who cares about you.
2007-03-10 10:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be his 'bit on the side'.
Of course you don't. Dump him. Then find
someone else who deserves your time.
As you said - you don't want to start a drama!!
2007-03-10 10:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Minxy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't get involved with him! He will eventually do the same thing to you!
2007-03-10 10:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
avoid both of them
2007-03-10 10:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by dian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him and go on with your life.
2007-03-10 10:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by mikentammy76 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋