arseholes. they will tell girls anything to get them into bed,cheat on you or beat you do you love being in control what is really going through your mind when your doing all this i know there is some nice blokes out there but why are you such womanisers? im curious to know?
2007-03-10 02:45:31 · 16 answers · asked by sexy girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Instead of asking this question, which really doesn't help you, may I suggest you focus on answering a question where you have total control.
Why do you choose such men? That's right. There is no need for you to choose such men. If you find them so hurtful and troublesome, then stop choosing these men.
You really can't change anyone else, yet it appears your question wants to change men (which I find ironic that you address control, isn't this about controlling what men are like?) so work on what you have control over, which is what men you choose.
So I respectfully ask why you choose such men. Why not just ignore them?
2007-03-10 03:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you know there are some nice blokes out there but be honest, you're not really interested in them are you? You've obviously been out with a number of "arseholes" as you put it, so what is the common denominator? YOU. You, and your like, keep picking them don't you?
When blokes are growing up, they start looking around to see what they have got to do, what they have got to be like, to get the girls. When they see the kind of arseholes you girls end up with, guess what? They mimic the behaviour of those arseholes, until they get the girl. Then other young lads see them with the girl and they in turn start to mimic that behaviour. Of course these blokes know how bad they treat you, but, hey,if it works, don't fix it. Of course the end effect of all this is that they actually lose respect for you, as that is far easier and less hassle than losing respect for themselves. But don't forget that it's you and your ilk that choose these blokes, so it's actually YOU that starts this cycle off. Have fun getting your pretty little head around that one Princess.
2007-03-12 07:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all blokes are like that and us women can be like that too! Honey, we all feel like this about men at one point or another, I have been through this already and hated thinking that all men were ar&eholes! It made me see the world through misery and this is no way to be! Start living for you and enjoy your nights out with the girls and just enjoy life and stop thinking about men and don't let them sweet talk you into bed. Just live for you and enjoy being single. Hope you cheer up soon. x
2007-03-10 02:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the theory that if you expect something then that is what you get?
I used to use this with my youth theatre. I would give the kid who was perceived as being the naughtiest a big responsibility and the other kids would say 'oh you should've picked me, they'll just mess it up.' But they never did, my faith in them was always met.
Maybe you need to start doing the same. You need to make it clear to people what behaviour you want from them and if they don't meet that then send them on their way. Its about respecting yourself and respecting them.
Also make sure that you are treating people as individuals and you might find you get a little more respect from them too.
2007-03-10 03:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly--we are not all the same. Secondly--you and women like you--choose these idiots in the first place, then when its all going pear shaped, have the front to tar us all with the same "bad boy" brush, convenient that! Be a bit more choosy next time, as there ARE nice guy's out there and be aware that there are some women out there that are just as bad as--if not more so--than men.
2007-03-11 22:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just the way they are....they can't help it. They want to do right by us, but in the long run...they follow their head (not the one on their shoulders). As for the control part, I think they feel like they are less of a man if they have no control.....it's not true, but they think for them to be a man, then they need to have control. and yes, there are some wonderful men out there...but because of cruel women, the men shut down....they are scared of getting hurt again....I guess it goes both ways in the long run.
2007-03-10 02:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just lousy at choosing nice blokes ever thought you might like the bad guys. The majority of guys are nice but remember they are only human and if you treat them like **** you get **** back
2007-03-10 02:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all blokes are arseholes, just the ones that You should've kept your legs shut for.
2007-03-10 02:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have to say that I don't do that but my ex cheated on me then used to try to attack me when she was drunk. My neighbours wife just had affair with someone 3 months after wedding. Can't have double standards-we are as bad as each other just depends on your sex when on the receiving end.
2007-03-10 02:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As that famous book says "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus! Men are just from a different planet!
2007-03-10 02:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by . 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋