my violent x partner is taking me 2 court for visitation im fighting against it obviously im really worried about it everyone i have spoke to said they only go 2visitations about once or twice and give up seeing them have you had any experience with this sort of thing?
2007-03-10 02:36:53 · 8 answers · asked by sexy girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a good lawyer and make sure all visits (if ordered by the court) are supervised visits...he will tire of it eventually....good luck and stay safe
2007-03-10 02:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The courts hopefully have documentation showing that this guy is violent and they will enforce supervised visitation. NOW what are his motives? Does he really care for your 2 yr. old? His this the child's father?
I understand you have had a hard time with your Ex and sympathize greatly. Consider that this 2 yr. old if he/she has had a relationship with him could benefit from seeing him in a safe environment. Children are deeply affected and scarred when intimate adult relationships end dramatically and they do not understand why. Seeing him could help your child realize that they have not been abandoned. This is so important for your child's mental and emotional well being.
Good Luck with rebuilding yours and your precious child's life. I hope you have rallied lots of support from your community.
2007-03-10 10:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Tereka Bodika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does have the right to see his child. Supervised visitation will be safe, and you needn't deal with your ex. Yes, he'll probably give up on the visitation, if you don't make a big deal out of it. Treat it as no big deal, and drop your objections. He quite likely is using this as a power game, to push your buttons. Don't give him the satisfaction.
2007-03-10 11:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry no, but I was presented with the option and was so offended and shocked with the idea, I never even accepted or attempted such an insulting thing, but maybe I should have, sucked it up for my duaghter. In the end it looked really bad to that I didnt, it only caused further acusations(sp). Its kinda like if you cant beat um, join um, and my addition to that saying is pretend your joining them and go over them, good luck Kim
2007-03-10 10:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was not violent to your two year old then you must try and maintain the relationship for your child's sake. As long as he is seeing her in someone Else's presence I'm sure it will be fine. If you chance antagonising him again he could be even more aggressive, if he is threatening the child then you surly you have grounds for him not to see the child!
2007-03-10 10:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi yeah my aunt and uncle divorced and she was only granted supervised visits. they are very unnatural and not at all comfortable and you will probably find that your partner will bore of them...my aunt did and she was a good mum til all this kicked off!!!
they messed her about changing dates and cancelling at lastminte and she got fed up but i think they do that to see how you react. if he loses it it will be held against him.
God luck and well done for making the break xoxoxox
2007-03-10 19:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by maginty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an attorney immediately. An abusive person does not discriminate in choosing a victim. Your child is in danger.
2007-03-10 10:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt if he will get rights if he is a violent person. Tell your lawyer of all violent incidents and it will go on file.
2007-03-10 10:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by chickadee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋