my gf and i have been going out for about 3 years now. about 5 months ago, we started losing trust in each other. at this point, we have lost all trust i believe. she doesnt trust me, i dont trust her. she loves me alot and i love her a lot too. she tries to control me but my mentality doesnt allow for that; so we fight all the time. for the past 2 weeks, we have made up and broken about everyday. now is getting to me emotionally and i am afraid that would affect my "1 month old career". you think i should quit this relationship and concentrate on my career?
2007-03-10 02:38:31 · 21 answers · asked by Lord_poseidon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I would call it quits. If nothing else maybe a seperation is what you and her need.
2007-03-10 02:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by mikentammy76 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And you might try concentrating on self improvements as well. I sense some part of you gravitates toward the drama and it becomes an addiction. In any case, this is not a healthy relationship and you should break it off and work on finding out who you are and what you want. The best way to do that? Find something new in your life... no, not the career. Take up a new sport, new exercise, new hobby. That'll put some pep in your life and build up your self esteem, I promise.
2007-03-10 10:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep balance between your carrier and your gf. It is not so easy as both demands time. My dear friend try to love your gf unconditionally and same you will get in reflection. It is very easy to break three years relationship if you wish but think will you able to maintain same spirit with your upcoming gf I don't think so because we are not machine which wear and tear out with time human relation is directly proportional to time it gets solid as time passes on the other end if your relation dies out with time then do not mark it as relationship it is purely commercial ship. At last I repeat love you friend without expecting for being loved and see the difference if you feel no change then of course you can quit physically but mentally quiting is not possible for true lovers.
2007-03-10 11:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by bihariraja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you lose trust the relationship is in jeopardy. But, when you start arguing and fighting it is completely over. Concentrate on your career. You two have grown apart.
2007-03-10 11:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a break. try to spend a little time away from eachother for a while. spend a couple of days apart, a month if you need it. then talk to her about it. tell her what you've been feeling, and ask her what she's been feeling too. tell her you love her and you really want to work it out, if you do. if things don't get better, then talk to her again. really show her what she means to you. if it was meant to be, it'll work, but you need to put work in to make it work
2007-03-10 10:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by MuSiC = LiFe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call it quits, a relationship is based on trust and since you guys don't have that then end it.
2007-03-10 10:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of it, this relationship is already over. If there is no trust, there is no relationship.. I would end it and not make up again.
2007-03-10 10:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! I say quit fighting an let love take over!
2007-03-10 10:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. This is a very abusive relationship and neither of you should be in it.
2007-03-10 10:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most definately.....how is this relationship adding happiness or value to your life? It's not...move on and focus on positive things...good luck
2007-03-10 10:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋