My ex boyfriend says he loves me but his messing around with a other girl what do i do?

Question

he says one thing thn does another we went out for a long time he stilll has feelings for me and wants to make this better but he makes it worse wen his with her and he says there only friends. but i think thts a lie cuz she likes him and making roomers and he doesnt know what do i do
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Answer 1

If you stay with him, you are walking into a life that is nothing but him cheating on you. In my opinion. If he wants this other girl along with you now, he will always be like that. If you cant take that kind of life, get out now. If it were me, I would be out of that relationship.

Answer 2

Actions speak louder than words. What the guy is really saying when he claims he loves you is "I love myself and I want to use you to make me feel good".

He's a cheating dog and you should have nothing to do with him. Just look at this as a learning experience. Now you know what you avoid in future relationships. Now go find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

Answer 3

Look, what do you mean what do I do.? If he cheats on you and you can not trust him, your relationship is terminated. See the door, go thru it and don't look back. Some men can't have enough of women, different women, and they don't care if you know or not. If you want to let him drag you thru this heart ache then stay with the bum, rat, and cheater. If you want to only have a little heart break that will soon end then GET HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE, now.

Answer 4

Sounds like jealousy and trust are getting in the way of you and him being an item. You have to talk this out and if you still feel insecure, let him go and find someone that you aren't feeling the same way about.

Answer 5

What should you do?

Not be surprised that he's wanting sex now and a (potentially long-term sexual) relationship.

If you decide you really want him, you have to convince him, by example and demonstration, that you are hell-and-gone better at being what he thinks he wants than she is, enough so that he's afraid to lose you, and make it obvious that getting caught fooling on the side is a deal-breaker that'll send you packing.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Don't quite understand you -roomers and what not.

Well, if he says he loves you and still messes around with another girl, hell, that's not love hun. Wake up. You know what to do. Dump his sorry *** and move on.

Answer 7

He is playing on your feelings for him. He uses anything you feel toward him to hang onto u. He likes having you both. Both of you appeal to him in different ways. But obviously you are smarter because you were smart enough to see what is going on and you already know the answer...u just needed someone to say it. I will........RUN....Run from the emotional pain, physical stress and hurt he will cause you if you stay. Good Luck!
Sunshiine

Answer 8

Perhaps you are missing something that you wrote. He is your EX boyfriend. That means that both you and he are free to explore other relationships. Friendships change over time, give yourself time. Move on with your life, don't end up wishing that you did. Let him go, and get on with your life.

Answer 9

doesn't sound like love too me. I think his revelation anout cheating is just his way of seeing how far he can push before you'd drop him. Truthful or not, what he's doing does not show any respect for you. It's ultimately up to you to decide whether or not you want to keep giving your yeart to such a person.

Answer 10

Now you know what it means when people say, " actions speak louder than words." Put on your self-respect and drop this guy like a bad habit. You surely deserve so much better than this turd.