what do you do when your parents compare you to your best friend? it sickens me. she gets better grades than me and that's the only thing. the only reason she gets better grades is because she retains things more than me. besides, we have different classes and i have all the difficult teachers. its not fair. she doesn't study and she never turns in her hw on time. i ALWAYS turn in my hw on time. i just have difficulties on tests, which is not my fault. i work so hard u know. my friend is not part of this family. she's not my twin. why does she always have to be compared to me? and i dont even know which of my parents is worst in comparing us. what do i do? cuz im tired of it.
2007-03-10 00:19:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them it hurts your feelings to be compared to someone that isn't their child, and you want their support in all you do good or bad!
2007-03-10 00:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If all your associates did drugs and drank alcohol, might you do it too? in the event that all of them jumped off of a bridge, might you do it too? "i positioned on tight outfits at situations aswel simply by fact I also have a very advantageous discern and that i admire showing off"...it is a hundred% against Islam. certainly, maximum of what you reported is against Islam. so which you're breaking Islamic regulations, you at the instant are not even praying, you despise the Hijab, etc... tell me, how are you a Muslim back? Muslim mothers and fathers are strict simply by fact they prefer their toddlers to stay on the in the present day direction. Your mothers and fathers have tried, yet they have of course failed.
2016-10-18 00:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to cope with it. It's not your problem; it's theirs! They should be trying to improve your quality of life; not comparing you you with anyone else! But they are your parents and you have to live with it, for now! Be the best that you can be! It's more important that you are happy with yourself.
2007-03-10 00:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents about that. Maybe they'll quit it. Don't tell them about all that stuff you said about you're best friend though. They'll think you made it up. Keep arguing soon they'll seen the truth.
2007-03-10 01:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to compare them with their own best friends and relatives. And i talk with them about it
2007-03-10 00:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by Drazen K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your parents know that each individual is different. They would have known by now. Let them know that it hurts your feeling whenever they do that. Advise them to accept you and who you are and not who they want you to be.
2007-03-10 00:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can slow talk to your parents and say to them that you dont like to be compering with other person. and you had try your best in your test.
2007-03-10 00:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggests that talk to your parents, told them what you feel, don't Think that they will get angry with you when you tell it, just be yourself, tell it in a nice way......
2007-03-10 00:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋