They approach you, and you say politely: "Sorry, I am not interested".
And they say: "Why, weeeeeeeeee weeeeeeeeee weeeeeeeeee, let's go out, I like you..." and so on. You, again, say "no". But they never give up and whine and bother you until you say something really nasty to them.
Then they say something really nasty to you and depart.
Why can't they make it pleasant and just go when asked so politely?
2007-03-10 19:06:00 · 13 answers · asked by nev 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once the rockets lifts, its hard for it to fall.
2007-03-10 19:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by enviro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm used to being that guy that has ben told no over and over agin and i really can't tell you why we are like that. But i never got nasty with the females that have told me no in the past because there is no point in doing so. But something funny just happened to me a while ago where I was liking this girl when I was in middle school and after we have both been through high school and college now she tells me that she has a crush on me how crazy is that. That just lets you know that women, like men are so crazy sometimes.
2007-03-11 04:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on now, you know damn well women never give a yes or no response.
They always leave that **** up in the air.
All a guy needs to stop trying is a "No I will not go out with you" or "Sorry your ugly and I dont like you at all"
But an "Im going out with my friends tonight" or "Im tired, how about another day?" that just leaves the guy thinking hes got a chance some other time.
Woman are the ******* devil.
2007-03-11 04:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we usually dont get any answers & its hard enough admitting feelings especially if you have accidentially or worse purposefully toyed with him saying things that might be taken to hint or suggest feelings you dont have. Also how old are we talking not all guys are this way & while after you say no we might ask for a little help understanding why or what it is about us that you dont like that doesnt necassarily equal the harassment or annoyance level that you suggest every guy does. Guys do sometimes go to far but women often dont help either sending mixed signals or toying with us..
2007-03-11 04:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by bpeter3196 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who do that are nasty people to begin with. You can't change nasty people. Just stand right up to them and don't let the ugliness get to you.
2007-03-11 04:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by littlechrismary 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because some men can't, and won't accept the word no. I have one and he does the same thing, when he wants it and I tell him no. he just keeps at it. and finally I have to get mad to get him away. hes just like a child. if he don't get his way he cries, but I have to say some women do the same things to guys. they will pressure them and when they say no they keep at it too. it goes both ways.
2007-03-11 04:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have bruised their ego, and when you turn nasty, it kills that perfect image they have of you, they think this could be the one, they keep on until you get nasty and wreck that image. you aren't perfect any more you are a cu-nt.
but that's the only way they can let you go. don't get nasty and they will love you forever. I guarantee it.
2007-03-11 04:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
may b all the guy u met r rejected so many time thay goy so frustrated n say bad thing to u . if they can b ur friend , y don giv them a chance if they try to come nearer u stop them
2007-03-11 04:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you speak with great sincerity. But many women do not. Men often get mixed messages. The hear "no" but they see "yes"
2007-03-11 04:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been turned down, so I really can't relate to the guys you are talking about.
2007-03-11 04:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋