I've been dating this girl 4 6 months now and she keeps telling me that she has this rape fantasy she want to do with me. She wants me to break into her appartment and screw her while she is asleep.. I got her to email me and hand write me a note consenting to this to kinda cover my back. With that said would you go through with this?
2007-03-10 19:14:28 · 12 answers · asked by bobbymack69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to break into your place and rape you instead.
2007-03-10 19:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by @( Ö,)@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would.
How often would you get a similar offer like this?
A few words of caution, though: plan this like... Batman would. If he were straight, I mean.
Don't just talk this over the phone or through e-mail. Lay out the plans side by side so you'd have a feel of each other. And that she knows what kind of task she has asked of you and how you are handling it. It's about preferences.
However, since you're the one sort of going out on a limb, perhaps you should do it at your pace, when you're comfortable and confident with the timing and all.
I think you really hold her in high esteem, though. So if you think this will have repercussions that you are less than comfortable with, perhaps you should talk to her, let her know how You feel.
I don't think it's healthy for couples to pressure each other into anything, coerce them into anything. For all I know, this could be a trap of some sort. Then again I've been watching too much detective movies, maybe.
But perhaps she trusts you and all and is ready to take this step up. So good luck to the both of you.
And do you love each other, by the way?
I just thought this would be relevant between you two.
I hope you two do talk about this thoroughly.
That was not a few words.
2007-03-11 04:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by ficklefeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey everyone has some kind of fetish and her's just happens to be this one. Yes you covered your back about the note. How do you feel about it is the question> are you turned off by it. It seems that you are not really comfortable with the idea nor fully trust her intentions or you would'nt have asked for a note. I think once you get there and know everything is alright than you'll be ok, but remember a burglur breaks in at night and never knows who's inside. there's a lot of games that you can roll play and maybe the two of you could find one that the both of you can enjoy.together.Hey you could always teach her a lesson and send one of your friends..
2007-03-11 04:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by pleasuretopleaseyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If she really wants you to attempt to act out this fantasy she should be willing to allow for some changes to the actual scenario and you should be unwilling to stick to these details and actually put her through something like that. She should be willing for you both to sleep together and then you can wait til she's asleep and then try to make love to her without waking her up?? or is she supposed to wake up?. You both could pretend that you broke in. I think. I know that I would be terrified to wake up and find anyone raping (or pretend- raping) me. I would feel very insecure about where I lived for a long long time. .
2007-03-11 04:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by HelpingHand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not break in-even if it is in writing. Many girls have this fantasy, and as long as you have it in writing and hse is of age, fine. But spend the night in her house. if you break in, a neighbor may call the cops=not lots of fun for you, or if someone REALLY breaks in, she may think it's you again, and not run or hide. Make a photocopy of the consent form. Women are underhanded and she may try to get you in trouble. Sound paranoid? Well, I've had my share of girlfriends and it happens. Be careful. And don't be too good at it hehe.
2007-03-11 04:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by hell hath no fury 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've come accross this before. You've got the proof that she has consented. It's just a fantasy. Give her a hint when you will do it and you can be sure that she'll be 'ready' for you. Have fun!
2007-03-11 04:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure...why not? The note won't cover your a*s though..all she has to say is that "I said no" and if a jury believes her then you are guilty...so you gotta trust her.
2007-03-11 04:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by CBJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i think you are living in a fantasy world...this is something a guy would dream up...its called BS
2007-03-11 04:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do you wan't too? If yes, I'd say go for it. Since she wan'ts you too.
2007-03-11 04:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Woody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go for it dude.
2007-03-11 04:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by SuperKdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋