but is it wrong that I have slept with his boyfriend since. Should I tell him or keep up the affair.
2007-03-10 19:03:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to have a threesome with both of them..
2007-03-10 19:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Now that is the most hypocritical thing I've heard in a long, long time.
So, let me make sure I understand you correctly.
1. Gay son
2. You disown him, assumably for being gay
3. Your picture looks male, you are dad?
4. Gay son has gay male boyfriend, makes sense.
5. You, male, anti-gay, disown son, have sex with his boyfriend, making YOU GAY!
Wow. And you still disown him?
First of all, why did you disown him? Is it because he is gay? If so, what do you think you are doing?
Secondly, why would you sleep with your son's mate, straight or gay? He is your son, don't you think that's crossing the line? You have touched a person intimately that your son touched as well. Don't you think that's a problem?
I think maybe you and your son need family therapy. Number one, there are obviously issues that you need to work on yourself, let alone with your son. You need to some how come to terms with him being gay as well as come to terms with your own sexuality, which obviously seems to be an area of concern.
Gay or not, he is your son and always will be. Family therapy would definately help in this situation.
Here's to hoping you "straighten" yourself out. Having a gay son is fine. Sleeping with his boyfriend when you are supposedly straight is not. Life is NOT a soap opera.
2007-03-10 19:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by max_minpin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly disowned your son cause he was gay then that means you probably had very strong opinions on gays so i highly doubt that you would have slept with his boyfriend and if you really did which i don't believe you did then i suggest you tell your son the truth before he finds out on his own. Chances are when he does find out he won't care anyway cause your no longer his father seeing as you disowned him right!
2007-03-10 19:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you are joking right? Disowning him yet sleeping with his boyfriend..... If you arent you need help because that is one screwed up family especially if he finds out. Its bad being disowned, hard enough I'm sure being gay, or cheated one let alone by a friend or family member but of them at once good grief talk about reasons people attempt suicide.... You need help either way because as joke its sick & twisted yet alone if you're serious... I feel for your son if true.....
2007-03-10 19:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by bpeter3196 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One wonders what sort of emotional moron you really are. Hypocrite doesn't even seem to begin to cover it. I suppose to be generous you are afraid of your own inclinations and are scared they will be advertised through your son. Personally if either of my sons were gay I would have no problem making the choice between accepting their choices or losing my son. Even less between having other people know about it. I love my boys too much. One assumes you are male because I would hate to think that there was a mother out there who could both hurt the one they love and lose so much themselves voluntarily.
2007-03-10 19:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by ehmjt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you! this is your child your job is to love him no matter what and for you to disown him is terrable. You just twisted the knife by having an affair with his partner. You should stop the affair and tell him.
2007-03-10 19:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by goodgirl5567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a really great show on TV where you can discuss your most personal and private issues and come to a peaceful, loving conclusion... called Jerry Springer.
Take your son Cletus and his boyfriend Tater and go on that show.
Bring along Cousin Mama and Uncle Daddy, and I will stay home from work that day to watch.
2007-03-10 19:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by Chris C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you have obviously disowned him for other reasons. Why would you want to tell your son that you have been doing something that could potentially break his heart? You two have deeper problems than that if that's all you care about.
2007-03-10 19:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Derek D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's way to much. Sounds like you might have gave your son the personal issues your disowning him for..
2007-03-10 19:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u serious, u disowned your son, but took his boyfriend, u aint being a nice mum, yes its wrong, u should know that, stop what your doind and find your own boyfriend and make up with your son, he is your blood, my kids r so precious, dont let being gay split yous up
2007-03-10 19:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from your avatar, you need all the friends you can get. If your son is gay, he surely got it from your gay ***. Being gay isn't a bad thing, cheating is. Damn, what's the matter with you? Now you have a straight guy's opinion.
2007-03-10 19:06:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋