Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

How many really nice girls have you personally known in your life? The kind of girl who would be nice, care for and appreciate you because you're also a nice guy, and that you knew you could have an enduring, committed relationship with, since you would know how to treat her right? I've only met one girl who ever was really like that in my whole life, but ended up not being to pursue her because she was unavailable (and it seems they're always already taken, even if they do exist).

We hear all the time from society that females are the kinder and more compassionate gender, but I'm not sure I can really believe that -- if they're really out there, I just haven't met them for some reason. It's almost as if as you and they get older, their hearts harden and it becomes impossible to meet any available nice girls anymore after a certain age.

2007-03-10 18:04:33 · 32 answers · asked by 011 1 in Singles & Dating

And i see him everyday. and everday when i'm with him i feel as if he's going to make a move on me but he never does. I want him to and i wouldn't mind at all if he were to but he doesn't and i don't want to do anything becuz i'm too scared and i can't get over him. please help

2007-03-10 18:03:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a feeling that the reason he wants to seperate is b/c he wants to see what else is out there. we got married young and i have had two kids in the past yr. one is 9mo and the other is 20mo. my body is no longer in the shape it was in and i done think he is phyisically attracted to me anymore. he says he is but i can see it in his face. he wants to be by himself and see if there are any other girls out there that would want him or put up with his crap. i love him but is it worth the heart ache?

2007-03-10 18:01:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my wife so much, I cant imagin my life away from her.
even though her body does not excite me sexually, her skin is not smooth, small nipples and so on things, even hairy body.
what can I do

2007-03-10 17:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by boiling boy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some tips that will make my life easier ? just anything that you have figured that makes a life easier....

2007-03-10 17:59:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We are (19 yrs. old) planning on marriage, have really close relationship. My mom just found out that we kiss and she is freaking out asking questions. But we both want to be virgins when we marry and pray and read together. Arewe sinning when showing affection?

2007-03-10 17:58:03 · 17 answers · asked by Queen 4 in Singles & Dating

I did. I'm not sure if its a good idea or not. If not, what should i do...

i plan to give her the chocolate she said was her favorite for their birthday in a month

2007-03-10 17:57:06 · 5 answers · asked by Spring is Awesome 1 in Singles & Dating

I gave my girl fren( unofficial ) a soft toy. Now she is overseas and she took it along. What does this mean?Aww man i really miss her, what do i do?We still mail each other once every week... But she came back but didnt inform me..What does this mean?

2007-03-10 17:56:21 · 7 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

because i solved my friends problem with her friend dun worry juz tell ur problem i wal solved and give u ideas

2007-03-10 17:56:11 · 2 answers · asked by sweetycrips 1 in Friends

2007-03-10 17:56:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are we bored people, lonely persons, do we need to talk with someone ? What's going on ?
I just signed up in this page a couple days ago, and im really interesting in other people questions, i would like to help someone with maybe one of my answers but i dont really have question. Is that the same feeling that most of you feel ? What about the people that ask to much ?

2007-03-10 17:55:44 · 5 answers · asked by YARA * 2 in Singles & Dating

that talks about love and how it's so awesome. i need ideas. thank you..

2007-03-10 17:55:15 · 7 answers · asked by Steph 4 in Singles & Dating

^well I'll admit, that question sounds a little strange, here's some guy over the internet asking people how to make friends, all I need is a little dog named 'Precious' and I'm set*

Anyway, I've lived in a small college town for 2 years and have yet to make any friends (don't think I haven't tried). I've been to churches, bible studies, classes, clubs, parties, coffee shops, sporting events, myspace, facebook, etc.

Granted, I've made tons of "aquaintances," a majority of these people are nice enough, I just get the feeling they're being polite when they see me because mostly our conversations don't "click" or rise above small talk. Believe me, I've tried repeatedly to engage in real conversation with people but to no avail...it's gotten me to the point I'm using words like "avail."

Oh, and I'm a college aged guy that some may stereotype as a "nerd," I prefer to think of myself more as a geek.

2007-03-10 17:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by John D 1 in Friends

Our relationship was rocky but I have never felt that way about anybody else I've ever been with. I love him and he thinks I'm an indecisive commitment-phobe who is bored of him. I love him because of his mind and heart and I know that's why he loved me, too. I'm normally a superficial ****** and that's why he doesn't want to be mine. How do I convince him that I'm not just "collecting" guys? How do I convince him that he means more to me than anyone else I could ever date out of boredom? Please tell me something useful. I have tried and tried and now I'm afraid he thinks I'm a psycho.

2007-03-10 17:54:25 · 11 answers · asked by Breez 2 in Singles & Dating

I just lost my virginity 3 nights ago to the man I love. I don't regret it and I'm so happy that it was with him!! :)

But! We have had sex twice and for a total of about 4 or 5 hours. It still hurts quite a bit and I feel nauseous a lot of the time. Is there something wrong with me health wise? Has any other girl gone through this? Please help!!

2007-03-10 17:54:11 · 22 answers · asked by welland07 1 in Singles & Dating

About 10 Months ago i finally got the courage to leave my husband of 5 years. The marrage has been over for the last 2 years. We have 2 beautiful girls together. Well for the last 10 months I have been with my boyfriend, he has been my rock and my night and shinning armor thew this whole emoshional roller coaster with my husband. Well just 2 weeks ago I found out that my boyfriend and I are going to have a baby. My boyfriend is so excieted and i'm really nerves. Well my boyfriend wants me to move in with him not work just stay home with the kids. This is what i have always wanted to be a stay at home mom to raise my kids. Well my husband has told me that he wants to take the kids and run. Well my questions is do you think my husband can take my kids from me due to we are not leagly seperated or divorced and pregnet with my boyfriend baby?

2007-03-10 17:52:44 · 17 answers · asked by Jami 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For me it's eyes.... I just have a thing for a woman's eyes especially when she smiles or laughs Cheesy i know but sue me I had to ask.

2007-03-10 17:52:26 · 5 answers · asked by bpeter3196 5 in Singles & Dating

so my ex boyfriend broke up with me a while ago because he, "needed a break". he told me not to worry since he was sure we'd be together again in the future. well one thing lead to another, and we kind of started disagreeing some, and to make things short...we almost never talk anymore.

so as time has passed, i sort of in a sense, have moved on a bit, in liking someone new. im sure my ex knows about this, and doesnt like it too much.

mmk well lately it seems like he's beein IMing me more than usual, and last night he IMed me being a complete ***. at first, im sure he was trying to make me mad, because he was talking about my friends and how he thinks some of them are "hot". then blah blah blah...and when i asked him to leave me alone, he started apologizing and being all sad. i asked him why, and he told me because i was "shoeing" him away and he was getting excited thinking about me, and certain aspects in our past relationship. i was furious.

2007-03-10 17:51:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the deal your on a boat with 3 people of your romantic preferrence. One you have a emotion chemistry to, one is very rich (who knows you might get rescued), & the last is one that sexually your happy with. You & only one other person can go with you to the island while the others must remain on the boat. You dont know when where how or if either pair will be rescued or that if rescued things will stay together. You dont know if or how bad the two you dont pick will hold it against you & while it may not matter then or later the point is you never know. So who of the three do you choose to fill your time with on the island keeping in mind you might not ever be rescued but of course you might be or if there for a while you might bore of them in other ways enough to regret it. :) Have fun .... I'm old fashion & would take the one I had chemistry or thought closest to "love" with. you can improve sex & money can't guarantee happiness especially if you dontt have a way to spend it

2007-03-10 17:50:50 · 11 answers · asked by bpeter3196 5 in Singles & Dating

My brother has this girlfriend that he has deen dating for about 5 years know and the ploblem in that relationship is that she only LOVES him with all her heart when it comes to PAYDAY. after that she donse not care about him at all . I think he diservers better he is a really nice ,sweet, hard working guy. How can i help him open his eyes that all she is ,is a gold digger.

2007-03-10 17:50:36 · 9 answers · asked by ****BUTTERFLYQWEEN***** 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been offered a job miles from home which will pay well, he says it will be cheaper if I stay home so he can save money by being in staff accomodation and get us a rented place and then I can join him and relocate to near the job, and also for me to stay at home so we don't lose our current home if the job doesn't go well but I will be joining him in 3 months, when he has found a place, he will still come home 2 days a week. does he still love me or am i being silly

2007-03-10 17:49:48 · 36 answers · asked by Janis C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I took my son and his friends swimming for his birthday and one of his friends shoes were stolen. I don't know if I should offer to pay for the shoes or not. What are your thoughts?

2007-03-10 17:49:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if a girl kisses a guy and then has sex wit them

2007-03-10 17:49:00 · 2 answers · asked by tina1_94 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats up guys.. been and this girl have been together for 8 years... well recently, I don't think she's sexually attracted to me. Every time I bring it up she seems to blow it off. Tonight, we went into the bedroom and she said, "your not trying very hard.. you don't even wanna have sex with me.." but I was the one who brought it up all night. I said, "do you want to?" and she said, "Yes.. but it seems like you don't want to.. and I am tired right now.."

Ok, then we will get going and it'll seem like she's just going through the motions and I won't be turned on anymore.. and that point she will push me off and leave, acting upset and saying, "your not sexually attracted to me.."

What do you all think?

2007-03-10 17:48:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 17 years old ... Im moving california and im going to star studying in college next semester. I had tried leaving last august with my mom, then she couldnt because of work. Said she would go with me on thanksgiving break...same thing... said she would go christmas break... same thing...
Lost two college semester. So I said i would go by myself since i have friends there anyway.
She was ok with my decition. Dad said the same thing.
Im supposed to be leaving on thursday.
Now all of a sudden my grandmother says she will call social services if they let me go. and has told my whole family how crazy i am.
I really dont want to loose another semester. And if I wait until im 18 i will because thats in 7 months.
can she really do anything?
can she stop me?
what can i do?

2007-03-10 17:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by MeMeMe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Which gender is more 'anxious' to marry, would you say?

2007-03-10 17:47:32 · 12 answers · asked by gene_frequency 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a relationship for a little over a year now, and we couldn't be happier. it's like something out of a fairy tale.

but what I have is frowned upon by freinds and family, because she's 5 years older than me.

but I really love her. and I hate keeping what I have with her on the down-low, because it makes me look like a bad boyfreind. so I'm stuck.

should I respect my family's wishes? or should I stay with the one I truly love?

2007-03-10 17:46:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my best friend,Jason, is dating my other really good friend Kristen. They have been dating for...2 months. And today when we went to the park together with some friends, I realized something when I was listening to Just So You KNow by Jesse McCartney. I like this girl a lot. We have these moments where everything is at a hault and I just hear me and her. I remember I grabbed her waist and spun her around after chasing her and asked for my cell phone back, and she replied with" Fine, okay," and handed over with the back of her hand in mine and turned her hand and dropped the cell in my palm.
I just need to know, is this bad? Should i tell one of them, or just wait till they break up?

2007-03-10 17:45:40 · 10 answers · asked by wyatt 1 in Friends

lets say that you're 18 F. still lives with parents. no income. owns nothing. about to go to college. How can you move out? how can you survive without anything? Can you ask the government or anybody for help?

2007-03-10 17:45:29 · 4 answers · asked by annenymous 1 in Family

I need to have some fun.. what do u do on your sunday??

2007-03-10 17:45:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends