I love my wife so much, I cant imagin my life away from her.
even though her body does not excite me sexually, her skin is not smooth, small nipples and so on things, even hairy body.
what can I do
2007-03-10 17:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by boiling boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What I as a woman don't understand is, she had all these things, small nipples, hairy body, etc before you got married and you didn't have a problem, why all of a sudden. Most of your problems with her body can be rectified. Why not taking her to a spa!
2007-03-10 18:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by bibi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention how long you've been married.....has this feeling just started? Does you wife have any self esteem issues? If so, then if you truly love your wife, then offer to draw her baths.....then offer to wash her down (slowly) from head to toe.....Give her a day at the spa.....show her some pampering and just maybe, she'll accept and both of you will reap the rewards!
Good Luck!
2007-03-11 03:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by calgal2180 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is trying to get rid of you...I have been with my soon to be husband (getting married next month) and even though I gained some weight with the birth of our son I still make myself sexy for him everyday. It keeps him wanting me and he sure does. We still have a sex life like we did when we met. Is it perfect NO but we still want each other and are willing to do the things that make the other want us. When that stops happening then I will worry. Maybe she isnt turned on by you anymore or you have been slacking in that appeal area. Check yourself, make yourself sexy and if she wants you she will respond by doing the same. Good Luck
2007-03-11 03:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by NightRose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if her skin is not smooth why not massage it daily for her hairy body? take her to a spa
Tell her she is beautiful make her feel that way
2007-03-11 03:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should join a gym together. . .and treat her to some papering. take her to get her hair done and get her nails done. . .the better she feels about herself the more she will try.
2007-03-11 03:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and have a talk with her is she not keeping herself up for u are you keeping yourself up for her work together on this or u will become another statistic
2007-03-11 08:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a make over .
2007-03-11 03:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat her to a spa day?
2007-03-11 03:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by I'm so crafty, I make people 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋