My brother has this girlfriend that he has deen dating for about 5 years know and the ploblem in that relationship is that she only LOVES him with all her heart when it comes to PAYDAY. after that she donse not care about him at all . I think he diservers better he is a really nice ,sweet, hard working guy. How can i help him open his eyes that all she is ,is a gold digger.
2007-03-10 17:50:36 · 9 answers · asked by ****BUTTERFLYQWEEN***** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly you usualy cant. anything you say is usualy taken as a "Why are you trying to ruin my happyness' type of thing. And you may well do that. Just tell him honestly what you think, without telling him to do anything, and hope that he comes around. If he doesnt, then let him be his own person.
2007-03-10 17:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by sasukechaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to him and try to make him notice it, and looking at the other side, she might be dumb because 5 years just waiting for payday? i would've had better things, i agree in some things but if your brother really loves her its gonna be hard for you to try to make him see the reality try talking to him but make sure youb have proof of how she doesnt care and how she acts payday..if he has noticed he will somewhat try to say no but afterwards he will accept the fact ...hopefullly he opens his eyes
2007-03-10 18:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be supportive of your brother and leave things alone if something happens pick him up dust him off
If she is only around payday maybe get him to go do things with you and your friends maybe he will see things differently
2007-03-10 18:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we all hope to find a woman that's different. We give them the benefit of the doubt. It isn't until things go sour that we realize you are all the same.
2007-03-10 17:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe even he knows about this.so just talk to him.If he doesn't mind forget it.
2007-03-10 17:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe introduce him to other girls that treat him better, but if you cant then i guess try and convince him that she isnt worth his time.
2007-03-10 17:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant. he has to work it out for himself.
2007-03-10 18:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she different from any other woman?
2007-03-10 17:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by allanackerman07 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't.
2007-03-10 17:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋