so my ex boyfriend broke up with me a while ago because he, "needed a break". he told me not to worry since he was sure we'd be together again in the future. well one thing lead to another, and we kind of started disagreeing some, and to make things short...we almost never talk anymore.
so as time has passed, i sort of in a sense, have moved on a bit, in liking someone new. im sure my ex knows about this, and doesnt like it too much.
mmk well lately it seems like he's beein IMing me more than usual, and last night he IMed me being a complete ***. at first, im sure he was trying to make me mad, because he was talking about my friends and how he thinks some of them are "hot". then blah blah blah...and when i asked him to leave me alone, he started apologizing and being all sad. i asked him why, and he told me because i was "shoeing" him away and he was getting excited thinking about me, and certain aspects in our past relationship. i was furious.
2007-03-10 17:51:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i dont know where any of this came from.
what is he thinking...what does he want?
and one other thing, im pretty sure he was drunk...
2007-03-10 17:52:02 · update #1
Who cares what he wants, just leave him alone. He sounds like a dork anyway.
2007-03-10 17:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was the booze doing most of the talking for him! Which is pretty normal for a whole lot of people! I do have a feeling at the time of break-up tho when he wanted a "break", he had another interest! But, it didn't turn out, and now your looking good again! Especially since you found someone new. The poor boys pride is hurt, and he's feelin "REJECTED"/ Don't you think he should of thought about that before? I do! Some times lessons in life are learned the hard way!!
2007-03-11 01:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nd'd a brke code for u ain't doin it for me.I'm bored
next,wht da hell do u care of what this dumb **** is thinking about when it comes to you.
next, u r still hooked on this loser/wanna bee playr.
lastly, I say! I sa! pay attn girl all this dude wants is to get u in the sac take all that what he wants from u and then poof! "I nd a brake" sound familiar!
stand strong girl/woman kick dis **** to the curb better yet let him talk to the hand .
unless, you are needy , this guy see's it but he does not know why it sometimes works for him and sometimes it does not.
please don't fall for his **** . If it is bad now what happens if u marry this **** and you have 5 kids with this guy who still wks a wal-mart or such.
mention my name so I no whoo i had wrote.
2007-03-11 03:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by foghornleghornlx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that he still has feelings for you and doesn't like seeing you moving on to other guys. People sometimes have a tendency to act mean or cold when they are hurt and that is all that it really is, he feels hurt and is lashing out at you. You just need to establish a boundary with yourself and him about that and not allow yourself to be subject to such immature behavior on his part. He told you he needed a break, you're moving on. He's not trying to win you over, so he should let you get on with your life.
2007-03-11 03:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by hypwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what he wants he hopes to date other girls, while he's breaking up with you.. But now he realize that he couldn't find any other girls or so, he wants you back so he can have a fling with you with no strings... Don't fall for his immature tricks, just leave this guy alone and don't bother hiim.. He's bad news, so don't answer his calls... Please, find a guy that is mature and that you can grow into a good relationship with... NO more immature guys... Happy Hunting.... Also, leave him and you'll be drama free!!!!
2007-03-11 01:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk or not he is being immature--you need to ignore any further communications---got that?? IGNORE them and him,,get on with a new mature young man who will show you respect and courtesy and is willing to develop a relationship with you that is fun and meaningful. never pay attention to this oddball guy again--no need to give him the time of day--just tell him you are too busy to speak to him and that is all--say bye bye. have fun, smile and good luck
2007-03-11 01:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's scared that you might actually be moving on (surprise, surprise). don't be suckered in. remember there's a reason you were able to move on. as for "the break", he probably wanted free access to other girls that he wouldn't have to be held accountable for. WHERE HAVE ALL THE GOOD ONES GONE? if you've found a good guy, be happy & let your ex get his drunken jollies somewhere else :)
2007-03-11 03:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by MaMaMiLaJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would tell him to leave me alone that I had moved on. It also sounds like he just wants to make trouble for you.
2007-03-11 01:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just jealous that you have moved on.he wants you back because he realizes he made a mistake in breaking up with you in the first place. his "needing a break" was probably cuase he met another girl and wanted to go out with her. she turned him down and now he wants you back.
2007-03-11 04:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by navarre537 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next tiem he does this... tell him... not to be insuklted every now and then... he is probably missing all the attention u gave him.. mroover dont try being friends.. trust me u wil end up having sex with ur ex... if u try being friend...
2007-03-11 01:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by niks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋