Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

My neighbor who i went to school with is 19 and lives with her b/f. Since my fiance and I moved next to them, about a year ago, hes been arrested twice for hitting her.. and 'scaring'her sister...
ive never seen him HIT her, but ive seen the way he talks to her... sometimes hes real nice but then sometimes hes a real butt... Ive seen bruises a couple of times, Ive seen him and heard him beat her car.. as in punch it... trying to get her to get out so she woulsnt leave the house... one time I was up at around 1 am and i heard alot of screaming and it was he and my two other neighbors who also live next door got in a huge arguement because the girls were friends and this other girl said he hit her face... anyway... TONIGHT... not that long ago.. 12am (45 min ago) She was knocking on my door, out of breath and pale. I let her in let her use the phone.. she just called her sister i think... while she was on it he tried to open the door... and it was locked.. so he started beating on it.

2007-03-10 17:44:33 · 5 answers · asked by Chef Mommy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

everytime i talk to a guy on the internet they all say the same thing im sweet and kind. im the anime loving, story writing, book reading type of gurl and i cant seem to get a guy at my school to look at me as anything but a friend. is there something wrong or is it them.

2007-03-10 17:44:31 · 16 answers · asked by gemini_dragon_gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is a single parent. my twin sister and i both go to expensive colleges in boston, between us its probably 40,000 a year. anyways. I don't really know how much my mom makes, she was a practicing dentist but now she works for NYS gov't. I feel bad because I could have just gone to a public school but she insisted I go where i really wanted. I have felt really bad about it since I think its tough for her.

she just brought a new car. its a trailblazer (who knows why a mom living alone needs that). nothing was really wrong with her old car so i felt good, because i figured that must mean she is doing alright

anyways i am home for spring break/my birthday. i heard her on the phone with my aunt this morning talking and sounding alittle depressed about something to do with money. and she didn't give me a birthday present, and said she would put some money in my account next week. i don't care about that. but thats not like her; I feel like she just didn't have the money!

2007-03-10 17:44:30 · 12 answers · asked by Mike 3 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over five years and we just had a baby together a month ago. We both have unconditional love for one another and even more now that we have a kid together. However the problem is I feel as though he and I are at different points in our life. He is 6years older than I. But I feel like I want more out of life than he does. I feel as though he is fine with where he is in life and he doesn't want to progress. We aren't poor but we're not well off. So therefore I think that he should at least strive for more since we need to secure a future for our son. And I feel as though he isn't working towards that or even trying.He use to be so headstrong and goal oriented. And now it's like he don't care. My problems aren't just financial. He had stopped smoking during my pregnacy and was doing well. the day the baby was born he started smoking again. I can't take it. Should I go my own way and let him catch up when he gets his priorities straight?

2007-03-10 17:43:50 · 13 answers · asked by miss_peaches 3 in Marriage & Divorce

omg k my friend said some stuff (if u want u can click on my name and find out what he said that might help u understand what i mean) and he said he was gettin jealous over somethin stupid, when i asked him today what he is gettin jealous of he said that he never said that and he doesnt know what the heck im talking about. its bugging me like no other and i really need to know what he meant but he wont admit to anything! what can i do that will make him tell me?

2007-03-10 17:43:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

characterwise. We could nt inspect anything bfore marriage. Hubby is bit fine but after 1 month he dances according to the tunes of his mother.I dnt want the history to be repeated like his elder brother's who wife was il treated by in laws and at present fighting for divorce after surviving in tht house fr 3 yrs.These people mentally torture. They have destroyed 11 life.My mother in law has broken up relation with her in laws and has grt intimacy for her parents. Father in law is a puppet.Brother in law is a recovery agent. Earlier wz told to us that he is a brnch manager. Well, my hubby does not act according to his brains. I ask him to take a separate house nearby only so that i m secured. Wht to do? Nobody is there to help me.Hubby says tolerate and then we will see later.People who r very well known to them says not to go bcoz its a very unhealthy family.Except fr my hubby, everybody is a gone case.

2007-03-10 17:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by bina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my mom met this guy on a chat room and hes way younger than her and like shes send him emails sayin that she loves him and all this stuff and she treats my daddy like shiit...and I feel reaaly fucced up for my daddy cus i dont like to seem him hurt...and my mom talks to this guy for hours on the phone what can I do?

2007-03-10 17:41:28 · 17 answers · asked by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 in Family

lately im distrubed my ex and his bro has given me the cold treatment. Im juz thinkin what went wrong. Last month, me, my ex, his brother and other friends went partying. i got along well with his bro and we ended up smooching at the party. we sms occasionally a few days later but for one thing he has never call me eversince the party. and of course i dont want to make the first move by calling him. its too desperate. so i let it be. though i have to say i like his brother a lot but he's young. im 25 his 20. And recently his bro stop smsing me. And then my ex...when i sms him, his replies were rather cold. either that or he aint bothered to even reply me back. I know i can juz let tis go and dont let it bother me but i cant help but wonder whats wrong.

2007-03-10 17:41:04 · 3 answers · asked by Nadya 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey People, Whats up, Once again I have boy problems abot the same guy. But this time i need to find out if what he is doing is flirting becuz again i am a bad flirt

what he does is say hi to me when he is in his car (by the way we are 6th graders and his mom picks him up sometimes). Then a day later school is out and i walk pass him but then i forgot that i left my sweater in class, so i go back. and when i come back he is crossing the street and decides to come back but the crossing guard diddnt let him so he kept walking. then that afternoon his friend told me that he wanted to walk me home.....but i dont think i should trust him what if he is lying and i make the wrong move with Chris

Then since i play handball he came and played handball for the first time and i was like woah because he has a broken leg that is healing

2007-03-10 17:39:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So everyone tells me I'm pretty, cute, naturally beautiful, etc. And to be honest (and not conceited), I do feel that I am pretty. The thing is, guys never seem to want to go out with me. I just don't understand what the problem is. I don't have a weird personality or anything! I can make jokes on the spot and I'm generally nice to people. So what could it be that's causing the guys to keep me on a "Friend-to-friend" relationship?

2007-03-10 17:39:07 · 14 answers · asked by Jan 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about sending off a picture of my brother being hugged up with a girl who his girlfriend doesn't like in order to break them 2 up because she changed his attitude towards the whole family. He can't talk to another female in his family without her getting jealous & thinking that they're sleeping aroung, & it's ruining our relationship as sister & brother, but he has no problem with her associating with her brothers. She is sick-minded. Poor dude can't even talk to his own mother without her thinking they're having something something sexual going on. Also, they've used & taken advantage of me & started false rumors about me & played dangerous pranks on me, so I want to get revenge.

Also, he puts his girlfriend before his family & threatened to get her to jump me (his OWN sister).

2007-03-10 17:38:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend invited everyone of her friends to her b-day party. EXCEPT ME! She said that her parents allowed only 4 people. I knew her longer than one of the invited people. My b-day is soon, so should I not invite her to MY party?

2007-03-10 17:37:47 · 12 answers · asked by Nur M 2 in Friends

there is this guy and i haven't seen him in 4 years but i still think about him and i wonder if he is all right almost everyday and i really want to see him again but i don't know why!!!! and i think that if i see him again i would fall for him one more time and i don't want that
why is this??

2007-03-10 17:37:36 · 4 answers · asked by Talis 4 in Singles & Dating

She want to date with some one but she is afraiding...She thinks that the guy will leve her all alone~!

2007-03-10 17:37:19 · 3 answers · asked by COROLLA 3 in Friends

my husband recently told me he wants to seperate. i thought he was just blowing off steam like he always does but he keeps telling me to take the kids and move out. he says that if he doesnt come back to me in 6-12 months i should just forget about him. but tonight i walked in on him playing with himself. ive been a stay at home mom for the past two yrs and i dont know how i will make it with no money or any place to live or anything. . . HELP

2007-03-10 17:37:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so my bf broke up with me 3 weeks ago coz he has lost the love feelings for me. He was so guilty to hurt me coz he knew that im a good gal, he said tat he's gonna regret sumday coz he wont be able to find another girl who loves him so much like me.

he loves fun and hates to be tied down. He wants to stay like good friend with me right after the break-up coz he still cares about me alot. It's difficult for me to stay like friend without showing my feeilngs for him.

Guys, i'd like to know if it's very annoying if i still remind him once in a while tat i love him after the breakup? like sending him cards, or some lovey dovey IM once in a while?

is it something very annoying for guys? or something touching? would he be touched if i keep doing it? or simply run further away from me?

please help, thanks alot

2007-03-10 17:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see wat happened was i lied to my freind about wat happened between me and my ex becuz i didnt want to disappoint her and then i told her that i lied and she told me she didnt trust me and i told her i didnt want to be friends wtih someone who didnt trust me and yea how do i fix this??

2007-03-10 17:36:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am a 21 year old guy who is stationed in germany, and i usually go out to the bars and clubs, now heres my problem, everytime i see a girl i want to talk to, i dont have the nerves to go up to her, and as well even when i do i lock up and never have anything interestig to say.
what is a great way to start a conversation and any words of advice?

2007-03-10 17:36:12 · 5 answers · asked by Joshua E. 2 in Singles & Dating

i ve been dateing this girl for about a week or two and i can tell she really likes me like she holds my hand and stuff like that i dont even pusher to do that stuff and i dont know if i should makeout with her because the last time i made out with a girl was in grade 7 (ps im now in grade 11) and i know i really sucked at it then. like we started kissing on the second day we were going out.(dose this mean she wants to move quick???)i took her to the fair today and i wanted to know if she wants to hang out tomorrow but i dont know if i should ask because i hungout with her today .ps im 16 .

2007-03-10 17:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by tyler h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 17:34:10 · 13 answers · asked by Pablo 1 in Family

Please help!!!

2007-03-10 17:33:48 · 14 answers · asked by Jules 1 in Friends

What was your first kiss like?
Would it be fun like a surprise?
How scary is your first kiss?
Will I regret it in the future?
What is an apporiate age??
What is a good place to have it thats private?

2007-03-10 17:33:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He used to be so nice and now he's someone else. Before he was seriously nice, gives me attention, listens to me, and makes me laugh, but now he's mean, selfish, laid back, and won't listen to me anymore. My friends are telling me to not be friends with him or talk it over with him. I've already have, but he's not changing. I thought he was my type of guy, but now its a choice. What should I do?

2007-03-10 17:32:17 · 9 answers · asked by Who 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 17 years old ... Im moving california and im going to star studying in college next semester. I had tried leaving last august with my mom, then she couldnt because of work. Said she would go with me on thanksgiving break...same thing... said she would go christmas break... same thing...
Lost two college semester. So I said i would go by myself since i have friends there anyway.
She was ok with my decition. Dad said the same thing.
Im supposed to be leaving on thursday.
Now all of a sudden my grandmother says she will call social services if they let me go. and has told my whole family how crazy i am.
I really dont want to loose another semester. And if I wait until im 18 i will because thats in 7 months.
can she really do anything?
can she stop me?
what can i do?

2007-03-10 17:32:16 · 3 answers · asked by MeMeMe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I was just messing around when we were together, and I thought I'd try to get him aroused so since nothing else was working I decided to hit him in the nuts with a hammer. Well it didn't quite work as I expected. I don't know what to think. Maybe I hit him a little harder then I had planed on. He acted like such a baby about it though. He fell down, and cried for about half an hour afterwards. After he finally got back up he was so mad at me about it. I told him I was sorry, but still it took him like a week before he forgave me for it. I can understand it hurting a little, but is he really that much of a whoose that he can't take a little hit to the huts without falling on the ground. I really think he needs to be more of a man. What do you all think?

2007-03-10 17:31:56 · 17 answers · asked by Sexy Cindy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-10 17:31:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend who I 've known for four years is currently a bit steamed at me because we like the same girl. The girl happens to be one of our best friends as well who I have known for five years and he has known for seven. She knows that he likes her and has rejected him multiple times (about 73 times though she did date him once) and I thought I was in the clear to ask her out, but my friend still likes her, a lot. He's already insanely mad that I even came on to her. Now I think that this girl and I could have a solid long relationship because we have similar interests and attitudes and I even get the feeling she likes me back. My friend only asks her out because of her body. I like this girl more than any other girl before but still is it worth losing my best friend who is usually the voice of insanity in my group? I feel I should just ask her out but I worry. And yes I am very lacking of common sense/basic knowledge.

2007-03-10 17:31:29 · 12 answers · asked by Badger 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my ex is getting married. Im not sure how I feel. My boyfriends mad because he knows Im thinking about it. Does he have the right to be mad?

2007-03-10 17:31:00 · 10 answers · asked by Princess Rach 3 in Singles & Dating

i FEEL AS iF THERES NO SUCH THiNG AS DEPRESSiON..i THiNK WHEN PEOPLE ARE FEELiNG REALLY SAD,&& DOWN THEY CANT FiND ANOTHER WORD TO DESCRiBE HOW MUCH THEY ARE HURT, SO THEY CALL iT 'DEPRESSiON"...i DONT THiNK DEPRESSiON EXSiST, AND PEOPLE EXAGGERATE THAT WORD SOMETiMES WHEN THEY DONT EVEN KNO WHAT THAT WORD MEANS OR iS..WHAT DO U THiNK?! U THiNK THERES SUCH THiNG AS DEPRESSiON?!?

2007-03-10 17:30:26 · 21 answers · asked by JB. 2 in Friends

hey u know how guys have a sayin..."bros before hoes.." whats the saying for girls?

2007-03-10 17:29:26 · 3 answers · asked by Disturbed in the mind 1 in Singles & Dating