Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

Why do people do it. Stay with somebody for so long. And don't say its because of some sacred marriage vows bunk. Or that god wanted it that way.

Pretend somebody told you that you could never eat anything other than curry for the rest of your life. As much as I love curry, thats a pretty dull prospect.

Doesn't your favorite song get played out if you hear it constantly on the radio, at home, at work?

As much as your body needs water, drink too much and you die.

So my point is, too much of anything sucks. No variety sucks.

So marriage = no variety and plenty of the same.

Tell me again why people get married?

2007-03-10 16:53:48 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 14 year old girl. I have been with the same guy for a while now. We broke up once,but that was my fault. We are now back togeather and I have known him and had a crush on him for almost a year and 1/2. He has told me he wishes me to marry him, I wish to marry him. But I don't know so many people say that teen's at my age can not love but only have lust. Me and him know everything about etchother down the the last scar, and we have never gotten in a fight. I feel like I want to spen the rest of my life with him, to be able to roll over in the morning just to see him and wake him up at sunup just to hear his voice. I feel like he is the only person I want to be with for the rest of my life, and he has told me that I am the only person he wants to be with. Do we really love etchother? Oh, By the way.. he is older then me, 4 years...

2007-03-10 16:53:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ever since he asked me out by bff has been instigating all the calls and stuff its almost been a month and we haven't been on a real date yet hes a little shy how do i get him to come out of his shell and i do i tell her nicely to back off???

2007-03-10 16:53:13 · 5 answers · asked by blondy 1 in Singles & Dating

is it a bad thing if a girl is friends with her ex bf's friend, is it wrong? of course there's the chance the ex may find out can everything work out for the best or will there be many problems?

2007-03-10 16:53:08 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate to say it but i am in my early thirties and have not come even close to finding a decent man......at this point i don't think it will happen.

2007-03-10 16:52:34 · 7 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 16:52:04 · 11 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

What are the important things should a female look out in a future life partner.

2007-03-10 16:51:48 · 14 answers · asked by enid m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-10 16:51:02 · 16 answers · asked by kathleen h 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what the impact of these people, entities, or major events have had on you. Positive or Negative. Meaning, what has been the effect they have had? How have they helped shape you into the person you are today? How would you be different if it werent for them?

Thank you. :)

2007-03-10 16:50:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-10 16:49:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2007-03-10 16:49:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, i've liked this girl. i finally get the guts to ask her out in person and she said yes and we we;re both YAYAYAYYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY, 5 hours later after i call her she said that she wasn't ready, i was ok with understanding and she said we have a chance. I asked her out a few days after we met. we've been talking to each other for hours upon hours and i feel like i should ask her out again. but i don't know if i should or shouldn't.. please help?

2007-03-10 16:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by Reid 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a big tomboy. I am Very Athletic, I play every sport under the moon. I also play some video games, Kind, if I figure it out. Why do I have all guys as friends. I dont have a lot of chick friends? A lot of girls say they dont like me because I hang out with all of the guys! Also, Why do guys just want to be friends with me??? They dont want anything more. Well at least not as far as I can tell.

2007-03-10 16:48:55 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Singles & Dating

but the thing is that I have a daughter who is 4. Is it O.K. for me to avoid women with children?

My reason is that I was married to a woman with kids and am now divorced. I love her children dearly and did so immediately for whatever reason. However, I have not felt that way with other women's children and am thinking I should stick to women without kids.

Anyone else out there been in this predicament?

2007-03-10 16:48:47 · 3 answers · asked by Tadow 4 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl, but after we make plans to hang out, her freinds are always the ones to call me, on her phone. Usually we go to a bar and her friends and my friends are there. Her freinds definetly like me, but it just seems weired to me cause i expect her then have to figure out which of her friends it is.

2007-03-10 16:48:07 · 1 answers · asked by timdadevilsfan 2 in Singles & Dating

Me n my boyfriend both really like each other and we talk all the time but mostly about stupid stuff and thats alot of fun and stuff and we do talk about flirty stuff every once in a while cas he is a very freaky guy. But sometimes i just wanna flirt more..wat are some things i can say to start a flirtatious convo??

2007-03-10 16:47:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-10 16:47:51 · 2 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this beautifull girl that ive fallen in love with and i need to know a way to tell her besides just saying i need a way to spill my heart out to her and let her know i need her and how much i love her help please

2007-03-10 16:45:48 · 17 answers · asked by dustin w 2 in Friends

I'm not afraid of commitment. My problem is an actual fear of betrayal.

I hear, quite often, about people being cheated on by their spouse, and it hurts me just to hear about it. Not to mention, people seem so lackadaisical about their vows of marriage, regularly considering cheating just for a "night of fun". It seems like so many marriages are ending, and infidelity is less frowned upon.

The thing is... Why should I even consider marriage when it's likely I'll be cheated on?

2007-03-10 16:45:32 · 14 answers · asked by Linus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-10 16:45:14 · 4 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else.

2007-03-10 16:44:54 · 9 answers · asked by d p 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl at school I like, and she supposedley has feelings to according to a friend of hers. ive noticed that are eyes meet and stuff like that, but the problem is we have no classes together, and rarley see eachother, only in the hall ways. So my question is how to I break the ice, and talk to her without coming out to strong. Note: I havent talked to her either

2007-03-10 16:44:50 · 3 answers · asked by ShiKobe 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is an American, and he comming to asia to meet me and marry me, and he wants my dad to give us his blessing cause he knows it important to me to have my dad blessing, please advise.

2007-03-10 16:44:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend are both in the tenth grade and we already tell each other we're in love. R we to young? How do i know that we're going to last?

2007-03-10 16:43:47 · 6 answers · asked by In love with life 3 in Singles & Dating

it was a great date, he kept saying how happy he was he met me. We made out french. then pop kiss goodnight. Date is tomorrow three days after 1st. We met online. I saw he went online today to view his profile. Is he a player... I don't want to get hurt. I'm 22 yrs old... or was he seeing if i was online/testing the waters...
How should i act tomorrow... the same flirtyness as the other day?

2007-03-10 16:43:26 · 8 answers · asked by optimistic 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy only twice now and wantt o know if it's okay to ask when I will see him again or should I just wait... let me know

2007-03-10 16:43:08 · 6 answers · asked by joann c 1 in Singles & Dating

the thing is,right.My parents think that I should be having sex because they think that sex plays such a big role in a marriage.So basically I understand that they only want the best for me and I can see what they mean,they actually want me to be certain of whom I marry. The thing is,they think that I just wanna get married to my girlfriend and its going to be a big mistake.Who said I wanna get married now? Besides the fact that I do love my girl to death and I knoew she does too,I really can see a Future with her,and The majority response as I said before is that I;m too young for commitment-GO SLEEP AROUND!!!! Well anyone who has dated rfom my age and is now HAPPILY married plz give me the go ahead!! Anyone who has dated from my age and married and now divorced,plz tell me where you went wrong so that i can learn from your mistakes,and anyone who wants to add comments go for it!!!!!

thank you

2007-03-10 16:42:55 · 1 answers · asked by J-Bone 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 16:42:27 · 6 answers · asked by ICEMAN 5 in Singles & Dating

Most of my friends are white, am I am also naturally attracted to white guys. If a (white) crush has mainly white friends, could he be naturally attracted to Chinese girls? Apologies for the awkward-sounding question. :/

2007-03-10 16:42:05 · 15 answers · asked by sparklycrayons 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 16:41:56 · 25 answers · asked by focused on the positive 1 in Singles & Dating