Girls.....wiould you say shes into me or not???....help urgent!?

Question

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else.

she just told me the other day, that this guy is after her, and that she doesnt know what to do, and she was wondering what i thought???......im hurting inside, but dont know if i should go for it or not??? she said it was an ex of hers who wants to try again. Also, i asked her for lunch once, and she never replied, then the same day she spoke to me later on, and acted as if nothing had happened, playing dumb of course, and didnt even mention me asking her for lunch via txt. Well yesterday, this girl advised me that shes going to the movies tonght with one of her ex's(dnno if on a date or not though), is she still into me or has already moved on?i saw her before, and she kept punching me before i left, and making contact.....whats all this mean?, im scared of losing her thats for sure, and i dont think ill like her if she goes out with someone anyway.....so please advise what i should do...

Answer 1

NO TELLING!!! IGNORE THOSE SENTIMENTAL WEENIES!! Dude... She's giving mixed signals because YOU ARE TOO.

First you're cool and laid back, then you get all excited and wussy-like when she does something and scare her away. Then when you are away and not wussy-like, she comes back and you go and do it again. I know what I'm talking about because the way you type is SCREAMING "I'm desperate and don't deserve her attention and time."

You have been friend zoned too long. You must make a move like this the NEXT time you're alone with her for around ten minutes.

This is called the Kiss Test. Do it from now on whenever you want that First Kiss.

So you've been talking to her for a little while. The energy is good and she's smiling. REACH over slowly while looking in her eyes and stroke her hair slowly and gently.

Touch the ends of her hair and lean back a bit. Keep talking while doing this and tell her only ONCE that she has soft hair. Keep talking for about a minute.
If she doesn't look too shy or move back or doesn't look uncomfortable, then THIS is the moment. Go slowly. She is into it. She KNOWS what you want and is feeling a little excited.

Go for the kiss SLOWLY. When you touch, keep it soooooo very light and tickly. Pull back before she does. Then talk as if nothing happened. After a minute or so, interrupt her sentence with another kiss, but now not as soft. Pull back before she does. Repeat everything with the kiss and soft -> harder and pulling back. It is awesome and it makes her want you more.

In case she DOES get nervous when you touch her hair, just stop slowly and lean back and chill. Try again after she laughs at another joke.

________________ TEST OVER ________________


First of all, what she does with other guys has NO EFFECT on whether she's attracted to you or not. So realize that as long as you ARE attractive to her, she'll like you. Right? Yeah... Easy. This works on about ANY girl so use it on BOTH. Then you have the power to choose one later. Nice.

Now how to make her like you MORE.

-Lean back and be comfortable around her like a best friend. Bust on her like mad and make her laugh at herself. I'm assuming you know how to do this.

-Keep assuming she likes you TOO MUCH and say things like "I don't care how much stuff you buy me, I'm NOT that easy".

-If she hits you, that's great. Say "You love me". When she responds, say "Like a little girl on the playground hitting a boy she likes... you love me... and it's OBVIOUS".

-Get used to touching her hair and stuff. Whack her with small things that don't hurt her, but make you seem like a teacher punishing the bad student. By having her used to getting her hair touched by you, you can move even closer to her (INTO KISSING RANGE).

-If she compliments you, be like "Yeah... I know" in a very serious voice.

Franklin

Answer 2

Oh good lord! It's hard to get into any one's mind for sure what they are thinking/feeling but I would guess from the way she acts that she likes you and is waiting for you to make the first bold move or she thinks of you as one of her girlfriends. But you won't know until you do something about it! The ex bf wanting her back thing could just be a way to try and draw you out into making a move on her. Or it could be real. I once asked a guy I liked for advice on how to ask a guy I liked out and then turned around and used it on him. Totally took him by surprise! So I guess you have to ask yourself this....would you rather have her as a friend or take a chance that it could be more? And are you willing to risk changing what you have now if she doesn't want more? Your call man....I'd go for it though.

Answer 3

Ask her - in person. That's the only way you'll know for sure and you'll be able to quit wondering. I don't blame you for being confused....I read what you wrote and yes she's giving mixed signals if she's doing all these things that make me think she likes you, then doesn't reply to the text. Or it could be that she didn't realize that you meant a date, and she thought you just wanted to hang out like you guys usually do. It could be that she'd been hinting to you and lost hope that yo like her back. Make it clear to her when you ask her that you're asking her out for a date.

Keep in mind though that there's always the chance that she really cares about you and loves hanging out with you and wants to be important in your life, but strictly on a friendship basis, and she's clueless of the fact that you are interested in her romantically and so she doesn't think twice about talking to you about other boys.

Now why she curls up and goes to sleep for just a minute all the time is beyond me lol. If she's curling up on your lap, that means she's comfortable with you and likes being close to you. You gotta ask her out to find out for sure what the hell's going on. Good luck. -:)

Answer 4

Since there is a guy after her.. If you like this girl YOU NEED to tell her now. B4 it is to late.. she is definitly into you.. thats why she does all those things.. We hint things to you guyz. Even tho we know you dont get the signs.. lol... JUST go for it ok. She wants YOU! Dont you dare hurt her either.. lol.. :-).. U will lose her if you dont step up your game. Buy her flowers leave it at her house, with a little note for her to meet you some where u can/ or dont have to put your name... It would be romantic to meet up at a restaraunt, or something of the sorts...TELL her EXACTLY how you feel. Good luck my dude, hope you GET the girl!

Answer 5

...Mirrors are made of a combination of silver and glass. It's incredibly time consuming to make them and it's a very delicate process, so of course "scanning a mirror" didn't work. You need to either buy a webcam and open a video chat program, then just have it show you instead of you and someone else, or hollow out your monitor and put a mirror in it. Needless to say, it won't serve as a computer monitor anymore.

Answer 6

mmm the only way not to lose her is to seriously ask her out... but dont call her or text her.... when she is being all nice to u, ask her... she wont be able to avoid the answer.... she really does seem to like u, but the whole ex thing is confusing.... so the only way to know is asking her out!! and do it before she goes for someone else!
good luck! =o)

Answer 7

Go for it! Ask her out and make a move! Maybe she's trying to make you jealous but sounds like you've reached a point where things either need to move forward or change...

Answer 8

When she said someone was after her you should have said "well he shouldn't be because I want you" just tell her. I know it is hard, but you can email her or text her. say
"-girl's name- please give me a chance. I want to be with you and don't want to loose you to someone else. (say someone else, don't say, some jerk or ****** cause it might offend her)" she obviously likes you and wants you to reach out to her and because you aren't she is thinking you don't like her like that so she is going to try and move on. hurry man, don't loose her. when she gets close put your arms around her and hold her and tell her " I don't ever want to loose you." she trusts you and wants you to trust her and tell her things like stressing at school, with family and/or friends. she is trying desperately to connect, buts wants you to make a move as well.

Answer 9

she likes you, dude. That's why she spends time with you. She wants to know about what you call her in your phone, like perhaps you wrote love or gf or something besides her name. She's checking to see if you like her more than friends. that's also why she told you about the ex bf. to check to see what you'd say or do. i am sure she wanted you to express in words or body language that you didn't like it so she'd know you like her. she needs some reassurance that you like her to. take her out to the movies and kiss her