Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

recently my boyfreind told me that whenever a boy or a man see a sexy girl he starts feeling like doing everything with her.......is this true?????? does that feeling arise for the girl frnd also?i mean is a boy attracted to his gf in a similar way?

2007-03-10 17:08:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my old bf of 2 years broke up with me in feb.. for nto bad reasons at all. mostly to focus on school and I the same.. anyways i ask ytoday thru email how he has been... he says hes dropped one of his classes.. so he hardly goes to school at all.. hes been going to parties once in a while. got sh it faced a few times and says "its actually fun if you take it slow and dont wake up wiht a throbbing headache in teh mornning" and he says "i dont knwo what i wasnt to do with my life anymore,i hate myself for doing so horrible in school" he used to be so ambitious and so goal oriented... he always knew what he wanted in life and workede hard for it.. now hes saying "getting sh it faced is fun" im 19 and he's 18 and were both sophmores in a community college.. if that matters.. he WAS mature.. but it seems liek hes throwing his life away.. i know i shoudlnt care about what he does.. i dont. i justthink its sad to see the person he has turned into..

2007-03-10 17:08:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 31, single, no kids, only child w/ a deceased mother. I live in the same city as my dad. My future career will almost require me to move. Part of me says go and live my own life, the other part says stay and be with my dad,,,,, HELP???????????????

2007-03-10 17:08:25 · 11 answers · asked by kim45237 4 in Family

well my bf just broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I still dont feel a little bit better or a little over him. I've had 5 relationships in the past but this is the first time i feel sooooo bad.

people say everyone meets 3 persons in their life. 1) someone u love most, 2) someone who love u most, 3) someone who spend the life with u. Right now i feel like he's the one i love most in my life (i've never felt like that before even i was dumped).

I'm so worried tat i am not going to find someone who touches my heart so deeply ever again. He's just soo perfect for me, his character, even the way he moves, he smiles, he walks, just simply touch my heart. I dont think i'm gonna find someone who can move me so much. I'm so worried that even i will have another relationship again, i will still miss this guy a lot. It's terrible.

anyone has the same feelings?

2007-03-10 17:07:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is very protective of my mom and will tell me off if he thinks I'm being bothersome or critical of my mom. It makes me dislike him. We are adults in our 40s..

2007-03-10 17:07:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

sometimes a friend or 2 will call and i just dotn feel like talking...and i feel like a ****** but i jsut feel ill be bored and i dont want to say in 5 mins of chatting "i gtg". my more closer friend i speak everyday too i feel talking more too. what do u think?

2007-03-10 17:06:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If so was it hard to keep it a secret since the church forbids those kinds of feelings between the missionaries and the students and he'd have to quit meeting with you? Was it hard to see him move on to another misson field. Was it hard to not be allowed to keep in touch. Did you ever ask questions just to get his attention? Was it ever hard to seperate your feelings for him from your feelings for the church. Did you ever just want to impress him because he was soo nice or so cute or handsome?

2007-03-10 17:06:09 · 2 answers · asked by Melissa Y 1 in Singles & Dating

It appears as though most asian girls that date interracially will only date caucasian males. I hear many reasons why they won't date blacks, but the reasons are usually demeaning ideas portrayed by society (or their parents) without a dating experience. I hear that most southeast asians perfer caucasian because they dislike they darker skin tone, and want to become lighter. Is it because asian women want what they feel are the highest members in society? Most of the time, the asian girls that will date blacks only do it for the s*x, never a relationship. Is it because asians feel that blacks have a low status in society? Is it because many asians girls assimilate into the western culture through media? I need answers, and no excuses without dating experience from a decent black man.

2007-03-10 17:05:18 · 14 answers · asked by Coldest B 2 in Singles & Dating

A psychopath is defined as a person having no concerns for the feelings of others and a complete disregard for any sense of social obligation. They seem egocentric and lack insight of any sense of responsibility or consequence. Their emotions are thought to be superficial and shallow, if they exist at all. They are considered callous, MANIPULATIVE, and incapable of forming LASTING RELATIONSHIPS, let alone show any kind of meaningful love. They typically never perform any action unless they determine it can be beneficial for themselves.
OBS: He was married 3 times, cheatted his wife with cancer and threw his own childrens with their cancer mother from their home, to move in with his mistress at that time. How sick is that ?

2007-03-10 17:04:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

gay??
For some reason my "gay-dar" is off lol.
It's hard for me to tell b/c some gay guys don't fit a stereotype in the way they dress, speak, or act, and some guys aren't the type that check out every girl that walks by (which would be a good way to know their orientation)....if I wanted to invest the effort to get to know a guy (say, a cute stranger at a club), I'd like to at least know I have a chance!
How would you know w/o being obvious that you're interested in them (ya know, without asking "are you gay?" or "do you like Celine Dion?" lol)

No rude answers please, need genuine advice..Thanks!!! =)

2007-03-10 17:04:41 · 1 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Singles & Dating

I ask because if you go to a restrauntant the waitress will often say nice playful things like honey, or sugar, or sweety. I've had female friends & even girls that I haven't known long or directly call me babe & baby sweety sugar. Sign letters with Always love, or Love, or Luv. I've had exs come back even after months or years apart call me Baby saying things like "Well lets get messed up baby". Especially if they do it alot it can encourage & send signals to people that they might the girl might not realise she's feeding. I've never been one to just assume anything so even if I like a girl & she agrees or says we should hang out i obviously dont see it as a date or assume that she likes me, wants me sexually or romanticly, or for a long term or even short term relationship but it does throw in some confusion in the mix in those situations. I mean I care about all my friends & would do anything for them but dont do certain things unless their really special letting my actions say it.

2007-03-10 17:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by bpeter3196 5 in Singles & Dating

ok you all know i been talkin bout this one guy that i like how would i know he is goin be the right guy for me with me goin through two abusive relationships before so how would i know that he aint goin to do that to me like the rest of them cause the rest of them didnt act like that intill further along into the relationship please help me cause i dont want to get hurt again

2007-03-10 17:03:17 · 3 answers · asked by Amy Daniel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why we always make net friends???we don't know them still we make friendship with them but at last they hurt our feelings???? why why why????

2007-03-10 17:03:02 · 4 answers · asked by splendid!!!!!!!! 2 in Friends

we've been going out for almost a year...and i tell him i love him all the time, but sometimes i wonder...i do know that i want to be with him for a very long time though...plus, (sorry if this is too much info, but i need advice) i have a really hard time geting aroused when we're alone and about to do the deed...so..please help me!

2007-03-10 17:02:57 · 16 answers · asked by Pixie 2 in Singles & Dating

people also keep bringinn up the issue also

2007-03-10 17:02:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it bad to say happy birthday to an ex if if it's been OVER for a little more than one year? My ex-boyfriend's b-day is comig up in April, & I'm not sure if I should say something or not. If i do say something ,I will NOT call him, but I will either send him a very short & casual email or just say something on msn. HE was the one who ended the realtionship last year and we dated for a short while. We never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. Also, he use to say hi to me on msn. And 2 months ago he called me & wanted to see a movie. I went with him, but he hasn't contacted me since. Would I seem desperate if I just tell him a casual birthday greeting?

2007-03-10 17:01:12 · 6 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

they cant be together because they lost contact of each other

2007-03-10 17:00:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked a women to call me she said " i don't know, Maybe, i guess" any signs of hope for me..

2007-03-10 17:00:01 · 4 answers · asked by suns 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend is having a baby and has supposely found out that it is boy. i just have this strong feeling that she is lying about it being a boy. do you think that there are people out there that would lie about something like this? now i have started to think that it might be true because she is having a baby shower and has told everyone that she does'nt want anyone to bring presents but to give money or go pay some money directly off of her layby. to me i think that she doesn't want people to bring her gifts to the baby shower because they will buy all boys stuff. so by getting them to that it will be easy for her to exchange the stuff cause she has it on layby and has the reciept if it really is a girl. another reason why is that there are only girls in the family & no boys & i think that she is after attention and by saying she is having a boy thats excatly what shes getting. she always has to be centre of attention or she gets jealous. what do u think.

2007-03-10 16:59:36 · 2 answers · asked by cherry 1 in Friends

i'm into dating white men at this second in m life. is it wrong for me to like oter things. where can i find white men that love black women who have curves. no freaks, just a good man that's ready to settle down?

2007-03-10 16:59:24 · 13 answers · asked by Emmy 2 in Singles & Dating

he hangs up the phone on me and dosint call me back when we do talk he gets mad cause I'm quiet he dosn't lison when i do talk.He dosint anser my qustiens, plez help me !!!!!!!

2007-03-10 16:57:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-10 16:57:19 · 27 answers · asked by dianemelloniemarlenejerryginder 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-03-10 16:57:15 · 1 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

im gonna go to court on tuesday, i think im gonna be on home arrest, and some people told that they charge. only 30 days ill be. on home arrest. i live in californa

2007-03-10 16:57:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it bad to say happy birthday to an ex if if it's been OVER for a little more than one year? My ex-boyfriend's b-day is comig up in April, & I'm not sure if I should say something or not. If i do say something ,I will NOT call him, but I will either send him a very short & casual email or just say something on msn. HE was the one who ended the realtionship last year and we dated for a short while. We never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. Also, he use to say hi to me on msn. And 2 months ago he called me & wanted to see a movie. I went with him, but he hasn't contacted me since. Would I seem desperate if I just tell him a casual birthday greeting?

2007-03-10 16:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

please just explain the basics to me if you know :) thank ya

2007-03-10 16:54:52 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this girl. She is sweet, smart, kind, caring and a good person She is alway's in a good mood, and she is absolutly perfect. The only problem is, she does not feel the same way about me. I've known her for about a year, and we just talk about everything. We are good freinds, and she knows how I feel about her, and I have even asked her out many times and every time she say's no. She just wants to be freinds, and I can understand that and respect that. She will talk to me at school, but she won't even go out and do something as freinds. So, I have decided that its time to move on, but I see her everyday and it's so hard to get over her. Can someone please help?

2007-03-10 16:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 16:54:12 · 6 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in the kitchen when I was yawning, not loud but kind of in the middle. He told me to shut up, yelling at me in a rude way as usual. He does it all the time but 10 times louder, and when I tell him in a nice way to stop he does not care. So when I did it the second time he pushed me by the shoulders. I did the same, so he pushed me harder. We kept doing that; even though I was hardly pushing him, he kept doing it harder. Told me stop, I told him why he touched me? When I did that he just kept pushing me harder. He grabbed my sleeves to control my arms. I grabbed his sleeves harder, told me why I was pinching him, he did the same. He told me to let go of his sleeves while I hold them really hard. So he just grabbed my hands until he tried hard to pull away my hands. So I punch him in the stomach and in the nose. I didn’t give him a bloody nose, sense he backed away a little. I gave him a scratch though so it was red and a little bit bloody.

2007-03-10 16:54:04 · 7 answers · asked by Lin S 1 in Family

i just lost 2 friends over a period of one hour
because i decided to still be friends with a guy who i like who messed up ONCE and now everyone is avoiding him and ditching him
except for me
what sould i do to get these friends back?

2007-03-10 16:53:56 · 5 answers · asked by [=_mommy_=] 1 in Friends