ok you all know i been talkin bout this one guy that i like how would i know he is goin be the right guy for me with me goin through two abusive relationships before so how would i know that he aint goin to do that to me like the rest of them cause the rest of them didnt act like that intill further along into the relationship please help me cause i dont want to get hurt again
2007-03-10 17:03:17 · 3 answers · asked by Amy Daniel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In every relationship there are lessons to learn. We teach people how to treat us, ultimately. It is up to you to A) Have enough love and respect for yourself so that no one can ever think of harming you in any way. B) People will only treat you as good as you treat yourself. So, since your last relationship, how has the relationship with yourself progressed? If the relationship with yourself is the same, I'm sorry but you will likely attract the same situation to you until YOU change. C) Focus on what you DO WANT, not on what you DON'T WANT. The Laws of the Universe work in such a way that it doesn't matter whether you want something or you don't wan it, it will bring you what you are thinking about. If you fear that it's going to happen, chances are, it probably will. See the person you are with the way you want them to treat you and either they will treat you that way, or the relationship will suddenly end and you will ultimately attract the relationship that you are fantasizing about. Finally, what does your GUT tell you. Be honest with yourself. Don't stay with someone that you think will do this to you just to be with someone. You deserve better. And FINALLY finally ... I know this might seem hard at first but FORGIVE the people in your past. It does not make it right for them, but it will set YOU free to create the life you really want for yourself.
2007-03-10 17:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by hypwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to start with love hurts at times so its when yur ready to open up again and except someone in our life, leaving your self vulnerable,and eventually youll get hurt again in someway or another. and that is love, and you will just know if its right, if you have to question it them ide say its not right. good luck in what ever you choose.
2007-03-10 17:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by jhdjkhblpk;mvhyf nbjhghbmnbjgb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him who's boss early. Get a whip, and a eletric cattle probe and take control of him before he has a chance to take control of you.
2007-03-10 17:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy Cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋