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If so was it hard to keep it a secret since the church forbids those kinds of feelings between the missionaries and the students and he'd have to quit meeting with you? Was it hard to see him move on to another misson field. Was it hard to not be allowed to keep in touch. Did you ever ask questions just to get his attention? Was it ever hard to seperate your feelings for him from your feelings for the church. Did you ever just want to impress him because he was soo nice or so cute or handsome?

2007-03-10 17:06:09 · 2 answers · asked by Melissa Y 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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haha!!! i went through the same thing! a few missionaries came to my door a while back, and one was drop dead gorgeous.....so i invited them in.....i think they were breaking the rules, but they came over everyday just to chill......the one i liked knew i was crushing on him, i knew he was feeling me too....but we never talked about it....but then he told me that he never dated outside of his religion, and after that, he tried so hard to get me to become mormon and join their church, but i'm christian and wouldn't do it.......but he still came over everyday........and he called at night, just to say goodnight......but then i started seeing someone, then he moved on.....but i see him every now and then on the street..

2007-03-10 17:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by nikki 2 · 0 2

Being crushed on as a missionary is normal. Think about it, two single guys with clean harcuts, suits, and nice personalities come to your door. It's bound to happen.

Let me clear something up: Missionaries are not allowed to have any romantic relationships during their mission. However, after the mission it's fair game.

Don't join the church just because the missionary is cute. He'll be able to see right through it. If things are meant to be then you'll eventually be together.

I had a few times on my mission when girls crushed on me, and I can't say I didn't think they were cute. Some of them were very attractive. The thought crossed my mind more than once that if I ever came back after the mission I would look them up. That never happened, since I found my wife since I returned from serving a mission.

Good luck, and the Church is true.

2007-03-11 20:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sergeant of Marines 2 · 1 0

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