well my bf just broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I still dont feel a little bit better or a little over him. I've had 5 relationships in the past but this is the first time i feel sooooo bad.
people say everyone meets 3 persons in their life. 1) someone u love most, 2) someone who love u most, 3) someone who spend the life with u. Right now i feel like he's the one i love most in my life (i've never felt like that before even i was dumped).
I'm so worried tat i am not going to find someone who touches my heart so deeply ever again. He's just soo perfect for me, his character, even the way he moves, he smiles, he walks, just simply touch my heart. I dont think i'm gonna find someone who can move me so much. I'm so worried that even i will have another relationship again, i will still miss this guy a lot. It's terrible.
anyone has the same feelings?
2007-03-10 17:07:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have had that feeling before. But, I am now very much in love and happy with someone else. Everything happens for a reason, whether you believe it or not. When the time comes, you will see how this experience was meant for you to grow emotionally and to have learned something about others and yourself. It might take a while, but you will get over him someday. Don't be surprised though, when he pops in your head at random moments, even after you've moved on. Good Luck.
2007-03-10 17:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had never heard of that before, but I can honestly say that I have met all of the three people that you described. Someone U love the most......still have dreams about that guy out of the blue.....Someone who loves u the most.....he has told me he still loves me and always will even though he has married someone else......and the last someone you spend ur life with.....married to him now......Can't say he's either of the the other two, but he's the one that I wanted to be with when I had to make the decision.
You will have other relationships and things do lessen over time. After the first guy, I was single or basically just dated for over three years none of them really serious. I still wonder the "what if" either of us had tried harder.
Good luck at least you know there are others out there that have had similar feelings/issues.
2007-03-11 01:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by indygurl3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as the 3 types of loves in your life (in your 2nd paragraph). That's like saying there's only one person out there for you. EVER. That whole one person who'll embody this and the other who'd embody that might be romantic. But it's also crap. Life and people are way more complicated than that. Don't let crap like that bring you down or make you lose hope in the future. The break-up is still so fresh and you're still going through the difficulties of it emotionally, but in time you'll be fine.
I think we connect with different people for different reasons at different points in our lives. There's not just one person out there for you or one person you call your soulmate. People swear by this, then after they lose that person (whether through death, breakup, etc.) life brightens up for them again and they meet another person they swear up and down is either really their soulmate this time, or a new soulmate. And millions of people have lived and died never having met their supposed one 'soulmate'. But they've still loved and were loved at different points in their lives. Some people die without having met anyone right for them. Sorry, depressing, I know, but I believe it's true because I know several people whose lives turned out that way.
But you have loved and you were loved, and that is a beautiful thing. The future is long, and you don't know who you'll meet around the corner. Think of it all as a big adventure. Hopefully you'll another man who embodies all the great charactersitics of your ex-boyfriend and much more really soon. :-)
2007-03-11 01:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Purple 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had that feeling. the last guy i broke up with seemed to be so perfect in so many ways. I thought surely i would never met someone like him. I think that in time you will met someone who knocks you off your feet. Of course we never forget those who we loved. You have only been broken up for three weeks. you are going to go thru so many emotions in the next few months. Just don't give up. Things will look up.
2007-03-11 01:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by carriec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes... i can completely understand u.... mm its hard... is there a way to come back with him? if not, u really need to (try) forget about him by doing other things/activities with friends.... it will take a long time though...
2007-03-11 01:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by ro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mother always told me the first love always hurts and you will rise another day and what doesnt kill ya makes you stronger
2007-03-11 01:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by clumsy gamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋