How can you tell if a guys is...?

Question

gay??
For some reason my "gay-dar" is off lol.
It's hard for me to tell b/c some gay guys don't fit a stereotype in the way they dress, speak, or act, and some guys aren't the type that check out every girl that walks by (which would be a good way to know their orientation)....if I wanted to invest the effort to get to know a guy (say, a cute stranger at a club), I'd like to at least know I have a chance!
How would you know w/o being obvious that you're interested in them (ya know, without asking "are you gay?" or "do you like Celine Dion?" lol)

No rude answers please, need genuine advice..Thanks!!! =)

Answer 1

Oh, get over it. Gay men are not THAT common. As infrequently as you would come across gay guys you don't need any kind of homo detection system. If by some chance you do come across that many gay guys, it might be a sign that you're hanging in the wrong places. Lesbians, on the other hand, seem to be everywhere. Of the last six girls I've liked, two were "bisexual" . . . basically lesbian (no, I didn't know that beforehand!!! I was shocked!). The latest one has some slight physical and personality features that make me wonder about her a lot . . . Anyway, I know homosexuals are not that common. We both need to get over it and trust that these people will have the courage to tell us that they're gay and not lead us on. Good night!