it was a great date, he kept saying how happy he was he met me. We made out french. then pop kiss goodnight. Date is tomorrow three days after 1st. We met online. I saw he went online today to view his profile. Is he a player... I don't want to get hurt. I'm 22 yrs old... or was he seeing if i was online/testing the waters...
How should i act tomorrow... the same flirtyness as the other day?
2007-03-10 16:43:26 · 8 answers · asked by optimistic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. If he doesn't like the real you move on. It's a waste of your life to spend time with someone who doesn't like who you really are.
2007-03-10 16:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Melius 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't think he is going to give it all up for you already do you? If you are doing the on-line dating thing give it some time. You were on-line today too.
I think one fatal mistake women make is wanting too much way too fast. Take it easy on the guy. Have fun. Of course flirt if that's what you feel.
He said he was glad he met you. I find that a decent thing to say. He didn't say he wasn't going to see anyone else or date anyone else. It's too early for that anyway and if I heard that from a man after the first date I would be really suspicious and wary and would probably run the other way.
There's no way for us to tell if he's a player if you can't tell. And I don't think anyone can tell by what he's done so far. But no alarms are going off in my head.
If it were me and I liked the guy I would just continue to have fun, see him, act how I feel and not push. Get to know him and see where it goes. It's just too soon for anything else.
Good luck.
2007-03-11 00:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well seeing how you to just met, you have to expect the other person to still go on line. Thats what I don't like about meeting someone on line. You know you won't be the only one. Unless you are a couple and that person still went on line, then I would be concerned. But just because you did what you did with him that don't mean you are the only one. Its too soon. Don't give him anymore of yourself unless you both agree to see only each other, otherwise you will end up getting hurt. Trust me, I've been there done that.
2007-03-11 00:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, and show him that you are genuine and honest. Don't have any expectations and just keep going out with him for a while and get to know him better. Develop a friendship. Don't do too much too soon. Develop something deeper.
2007-03-11 00:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by It is what it is 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being on line means you are playing the field, am i right? maybe for this guy, you are not yet the right mate for him and he is trying or viewing other profiles. it is like looking for a job. you click on all the most possible candidates. so click on. do you think after the first date, you are sure he is the right man for you? come on! you still have to know him better.
2007-03-11 00:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, and let him know upfront what you want from him, if your unsure just let him know what you dont want to happen between you two,example....let him know that you dont want him to think of you as just a booty call, or if thats what you want? let him know lol. smile a lot and dont try to be something your not, more than likely theres a reason he likes you...you wouldnt want to change and mess it all up??
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-11 00:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by rissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act normal..
2007-03-11 00:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by misia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself
2007-03-11 00:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋