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I am a 14 year old girl. I have been with the same guy for a while now. We broke up once,but that was my fault. We are now back togeather and I have known him and had a crush on him for almost a year and 1/2. He has told me he wishes me to marry him, I wish to marry him. But I don't know so many people say that teen's at my age can not love but only have lust. Me and him know everything about etchother down the the last scar, and we have never gotten in a fight. I feel like I want to spen the rest of my life with him, to be able to roll over in the morning just to see him and wake him up at sunup just to hear his voice. I feel like he is the only person I want to be with for the rest of my life, and he has told me that I am the only person he wants to be with. Do we really love etchother? Oh, By the way.. he is older then me, 4 years...

2007-03-10 16:53:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

It might feel like love, and maybe it is! But at 14 you still have a long time to go before marriage or anything like that is an issue. So, in love or no, labels aren't important! Just enjoy the relationship you have, and one day you will know for sure if you love him or not. No. questions. asked. :)

2007-03-10 17:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sammeh 2 · 0 0

To begin with, many States consider it a crime for an 18 year-old to have sex with a 14 year-old. So be careful. As far as whether you have "love" for each other, probably. You have a good awareness of your position in life...many years to go before you can vote, sign a contract, even drive a car. As you move on through life and pass these different milestones, you grow in understanding and wisdom. What you like now may change, may stay the same. Only time will tell. The rest of your life is a long time. So if your relationship lasts, that's great. You're lucky to be getting a head start. There's no need to be in a rush to do anything. You have plenty of time.

2007-03-11 01:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0 0

Hi,
My little sister, that is not love!!! Be careful to your feeling, for most of the time feeling is immoral. Not at all times that it can be trusted or be a reason for a decision. You're too young enough of this sad relationship you have engage with. Your future is not yet today my little sister. You're still walking towards it. Thus, do not hold this affair as if there will be no tomorrow for you, young one. Remember your last year moments? once you were at those tomes. But where are those times now? They passed away. So in the same way this affair that you have now.
What i am telling you is that you are not in love. You and the guy is in the feeling of lust(an erotic love). True love will come at the right moment without seeking it. And i believe that your that age now is not a moment that love will come. I'm talking here about the love of a marriage. this kind of love is a gift from God above. It comes your life with full of surprise.
Your too young enough to think widely my little sister. And have hard time to understand me.
I tell you, you must not trust your own heart, but to your parents. At your age now you're under the guidance or wisdom of your parents. And honor them, for this is a commandment, whatever their decision. Remember the old proverb: 'A daughter who disobeys their parents will fall to destruction.' At the stage in life as you have now, how many lives, virginities or future were lost for what is more hot here is the lustful desire. So is your felling now and of the guy. What is most necessary at this stage is self control specially the sex matter.
Pray to our good God and trust him always
hope this helps.
Good day, my little sister.

2007-03-11 01:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by wonderer 1 · 0 0

First off, you're 14...i'm sure you're experiencing some sort of love but not that BIG LOVE you're imagining. Honey, even people like me in our 20's don't know what love is.

I'm sure you care for him uncondtionally but "love" is a strong word. And remember, you've got that rest of your life to live.

2007-03-11 01:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all..Its called statutory rape!..He's 18 and your 14..Now where are your parents?? There is something wrong with this guy..! Not you ! And as much as it feels like love..it can't be because you don't have a clue of what it is! You have nothing to compare it to!

2007-03-11 01:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0 0

I am 12 and my boyfriend is 2 years older than me.
I feel this feeling frequently......as if I could be with him forever and ever and always be perfectly happy.
It would be awesome if we could stay together forever....I will do everything in my power to try to, but theres' only so much I can do.

Anyways---I have never told him flat out "I love you" and he hasn't said it to me either.
I do fully belive that I love him though.
To answer your question....love freely, but be reasonably cautious.....

2007-03-11 01:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0 0

It's easy to love everybody, but to be in love with someone, only you can tell when the time comes.

2007-03-11 01:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0 0

well i think you do love him and he loves you too.you sound mature and know whats happening in your relationship. don't let it slip and by the way i'm 15 and my bf is 18 and i don't think there is anything wrong with that . good luck

2007-03-11 01:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

the best way to make a decision is to follow your heart, what does your heart say?and that will be your answer because when you follow your heart you are the most happiest.

2007-03-11 01:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by santhinara b 1 · 0 0

idk, u might love him, but ur too young to think bout the rest of ur life w.that same guy.. u never kno what could happen, u might not feel this way in 3 yrs or w.e....

2007-03-11 01:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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