so my bf broke up with me 3 weeks ago coz he has lost the love feelings for me. He was so guilty to hurt me coz he knew that im a good gal, he said tat he's gonna regret sumday coz he wont be able to find another girl who loves him so much like me.
he loves fun and hates to be tied down. He wants to stay like good friend with me right after the break-up coz he still cares about me alot. It's difficult for me to stay like friend without showing my feeilngs for him.
Guys, i'd like to know if it's very annoying if i still remind him once in a while tat i love him after the breakup? like sending him cards, or some lovey dovey IM once in a while?
is it something very annoying for guys? or something touching? would he be touched if i keep doing it? or simply run further away from me?
please help, thanks alot
2007-03-10 17:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every guy is differant...try it and see...if not then keep doing it...i know me personally would find it touching...
2007-03-10 17:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by anthonymperkins05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could become annoying, especially if he no longer finds you attractive or he has moved on to another girl.
Personally I think it's probably better if you do not do these things and simply move on. I say that because doing these things indicates a desire to get back into a relationship with him when it's just not going to happen. It may also come across as your being obsessive. At that point he will attempt to avoid you and then you'll be more determined and (possibly jealous if he finds another) and a vicious cycle starts.
2007-03-10 17:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
donot generalize things here. You have to see his response when you that sort of things and act accordingly. All the best...
2007-03-10 17:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by Arnab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sorta got to read what his reaction is to these things....
then move on from there
2007-03-10 17:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by balla15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋