My friend invited everyone of her friends to her b-day party. EXCEPT ME! She said that her parents allowed only 4 people. I knew her longer than one of the invited people. My b-day is soon, so should I not invite her to MY party?
2007-03-10 17:37:47 · 12 answers · asked by Nur M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't invite her to your birthday party but do send her a piece of your birthday cake, or:
Send her a belated birthday party invitation.
2007-03-10 17:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by pistolero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Miss out on a present? Doesn't quite seem worth it. Invite her and let her have a good time. Show her what a good friend you really are and that you have true character. Maybe she will feel guilty about not inviting you. The best revenge is a sleepless night.
2007-03-11 01:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was pretty mean of her and of her parents. If she was a good friend, she could of said to them "I don't want to exclude anyone, so I will not invite anybody. If one of my friends can't come, then nobody comes." That would be the right thing to do, but she didn't do that. Don't invite her to your party; she doesn't deserve your invitation.
2007-03-11 01:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for the hurt feelings! Try not to look at this as a revenge, that's not good. As for your B-day, well I guess it depends if you want to lower yourself to her level and be mean, and not believe her and know she could only invite 4. Or feel like your "getting even" and not invite her to your part-which at your age is probably what my daughter would do!
2007-03-11 01:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NOT invite her, why would you????? She has 4 more friends that she cares MORE than she cares about you, obviously if you 2 were best friends then you would have been invited toher party.
Plus this is not about taking a revenge, this is about knowing whos reall your friend and whos not, she made it clear, so why woud you invite her?
2007-03-11 01:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your friend, invite her. Doing that will just further the rift in your friendship. If it realy bothered you then tell her that. Also, just because you kner her longer does not mean you have "dibs" or any such thing. Its her choice and its her birthday. choose who you would want at your birthday, and let her choose who she wants. Its tough to choose friends, and it must have been hard for her either way. Just let it go, and if your still friends, invite her.
2007-03-11 01:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by sasukechaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look its already taken too much energy for you just to ask this question. If you like her or if you truly want to be the bigger person invite her anyway. Games take too much energy.
2007-03-11 01:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend..
Do not invite her to your party..
2007-03-11 03:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the bigger person and forgive if you consider her a friend, and dont invite her if you still feel bad when your birthday comes around
2007-03-11 01:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by lizziemoffles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no invite her to make her feels guilty
2007-03-11 03:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by untilinfinity_lsmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋