I just found out that my ex is getting married. Im not sure how I feel. My boyfriends mad because he knows Im thinking about it. Does he have the right to be mad?
2007-03-10 17:31:00 · 10 answers · asked by Princess Rach 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I feel like crying, is that stupid?!
2007-03-10 17:36:20 · update #1
well it depends if the ex was very special person and for some stupid reasons you 2 broke it off and your feelings never went away>? I have only one ex and I feel that way about him, he was my first love and yeah it would bother me if he ever got married, but hey, its LIFE, we chose it to be like that, and I Know I will get very sad about it, but what can I do?
you feel like crying that is NOT stupid, you still have feelings for him and deep down in your heart you wish that the girl was YOU thats getting to marry him! thats why, you still love him!
2007-03-10 17:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the right to think about it. It just depends how you're thinking though. If you are sort of jealous that your ex is getting married then this could make your current boyfriend jealous. On top of that, if you are jealous your ex is getting married there could be a chance you still have feelings for him. Couldn't there be?
2007-03-11 01:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by skillzdatkillzz420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember why he became your ex, things have happened in both your relationships and he has moved on. If you had feelings you should have said something then its too late now. Time to move on with your own life, he has.
And yes I would be extremely unhappy if my boyfriend/partner was thinking of someone else
Put yourself in his shoes for just a minute and really think how you would feel
2007-03-11 01:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi. I think that your bf has a right to be mad coz he's jealous, it's normal.
But one think u really have to think clearly and ask yourself. From what u've said, i think tat u still have feelings for your ex. It's fine that u think about his wedding, but it's NOT fine if u are sad and even feeling like crying for his wedding.
If u're totally over your ex, u wouldnt felt sad for his marriage. U'd just be happy for him..... if u're somehow sad, feel like crying, etc , it means that you're still NOT over him yet.. Think about it!
good luck
2007-03-11 01:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my ex got married I was devisated I spent alot of years with him and then 6mos later he marries this girl out of the blue ...She ended up cheating on him with his barber...they got divorced...you are better off without him there is a reason he is your ex
2007-03-11 01:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by starr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is only mad because he is a guy and he thinks with the wrong head. i was confused when I received a wedding invite from my 1st love. Men don't understand. Part of me wanted to go just to see what she looked like, but I chose not to because I knew I couldn't bare to see him with another woman. Follow your heart and ignore his rants.
2007-03-11 01:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by kim45237 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i felt crushed after i found out my ex- fiance got married.we she got married less than a year after we split up.they were dating less than a month after we split up
your bf is mad cause he thinks you still have feelings for your ex.and hes jealous. but if he truly cares for you he will get over it because he'll realize that its only natural for you to think about your ex, especially if you and your ex dated for a long time.
2007-03-11 04:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by navarre537 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was angry because my ex got married 3 month after we broke up!
Your bf is jealous that's all . He feels unsecure (i guess )
2007-03-11 01:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont have feelings for my ex's they are my ex's for a reason.
2007-03-11 01:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by best cuddler =) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was relieved.
2007-03-11 01:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by All Natural Honey 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋