ok my mom met this guy on a chat room and hes way younger than her and like shes send him emails sayin that she loves him and all this stuff and she treats my daddy like shiit...and I feel reaaly fucced up for my daddy cus i dont like to seem him hurt...and my mom talks to this guy for hours on the phone what can I do?
2007-03-10 17:41:28 · 17 answers · asked by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I do try my best to treat her like **** and she denies me she tells him Im his sister aint that some fuccked up shiit?? I rebel against everything she says
2007-03-10 17:53:50 · update #1
Tell your father what is going on ...........and get a ringside seat to watch him hit the cheatingbeeotch in the face with a shovel.
2007-03-10 20:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorta the same thing only i think my mums guy ois imaginary. Everytime he is due to come round he's suddenly cancelling. Or on the phone it rings she answers but i swear i heard driectory inquiries automated machine thing. My dad has to sit by and watch what is happening and its not fair. Even though they are seperated she still looks over his shoulder at what he's doing, buying who he's seeing yada yada yada. But if he asks about her life friends she goes off on one. She treats me like i'm the main breadwinner. I'm twenty one and i have to look after all of the bills. But she wont listen to me or my sisters. But at the end of the day you have to let it go and pretty much sort itself out. She'll come around sooner or later. Normally later when she realises she's got nothing left. Then they start crawling. It sounds horrible but its true. Just be there for your dad in the mean time.
2007-03-11 06:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Genesis1753 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom how you feel. She may not really understand how it's affecting you. It sounds like she's infatuated, and it may not get through to her because infatuation is a powerful thing. Just try and be there for your father and talk to him too. Just know that this doesn't reflect on you and your father. If your parents are unhappy together, they need to work it out.
It's a complex issue, and infidelity affects the entire family. Maybe bring up family therapy. It might be good to have a way to get everyone's feelings in the open.
2007-03-10 17:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by clovisdied 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG...believe it or not..im going through the exact same thing and have been for about 4 months..my daddy lvoes my mom to much to leave her so he wont..and my mom just blows him off and acts like a whore...all u can really do is sit watch hope and pray babe..and i go and i talk to my dad about it..and it helps him and it lets me know what he's thinking...plz tell me what happens okay?
thanx
2007-03-10 17:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by Layla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, your mom is old enough to know what is right or what is wrong and i'm sure that she's forgetting that she's with ur dad and she has you. so keep on reminding her that.
2. theres not that much to be afraid of as long as your mom is not seeing the guy and having major attachments with him. if she starts doing it, youll be better off without her coz she has a greater possibility that shell do the same thing over and over again.
2007-03-10 17:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by annenymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send an email to your mom telling her that as much as you love and respect her as your parent, you feel disgusted by the way she has been acting. tell her that if she cannot avoid doing what she is doing, then atleast have the decency to be discreet about it. tell her that you know that she and your dad has been having problems and that it may be none of your business but she is not only disrespecting your father but also you as her daughter. it will take a lot of guts to do this, i know, but you have to. you owe it to yourself as a person and a member of your family. i pray that you will have strength and that through you, your family will find peace.
2007-03-10 17:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by sheilanmanny12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes gonna learn a hard lesson and in time will try to turn back but then it may be to late. I feel for your family this is hard to go through.If you can catch the phone call tell him to leave your mom alone shes married... Good Luck
2007-03-10 19:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blunty put, you can do nothing. I know its extremely hard to see this, but truthfully it's nothing to do with you. Your parents will have to work this one out for themselves. And remember, there will be things in their relationship that you know nothing about, there are always two sides to a story. To help yourself cope with how it effects you, I would see a therapist. Surely your mother must realise how this is affecting you but some adults simply get caught up in their own lives. You could try telling her honestly how your feel, and after that leave it alone.
2007-03-10 17:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well does your dad know cuz if he doesnt know you should tell him before he finds out himself and he would be more hurt if he doesnt find out before she dumps him so I would tell him asap n ur mom is fucced up to do somethig like dat!
2007-03-10 17:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Negotiate with your parents. Ask them why this is happening. Tell your mom the consequences if she goes another road.
2007-03-10 17:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by DX Generation22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋