I'm thinking about sending off a picture of my brother being hugged up with a girl who his girlfriend doesn't like in order to break them 2 up because she changed his attitude towards the whole family. He can't talk to another female in his family without her getting jealous & thinking that they're sleeping aroung, & it's ruining our relationship as sister & brother, but he has no problem with her associating with her brothers. She is sick-minded. Poor dude can't even talk to his own mother without her thinking they're having something something sexual going on. Also, they've used & taken advantage of me & started false rumors about me & played dangerous pranks on me, so I want to get revenge.
Also, he puts his girlfriend before his family & threatened to get her to jump me (his OWN sister).
2007-03-10 17:38:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sounds like someone needs to get rid of her! but find another way so it wont come back on you
2007-03-10 18:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to pick your battles wisely in life. You're gonna lose many and some even if you do win it will be costly. Ask yourself...
First ,Is this a conflict you even want to get in?
Second, what kind of repercussions will come out of it? Any Good?
Third, What are you gonna do when the **** hits the fan and it turns ugly?
Sadly I see nothing good coming out of this. All he will do is hate you thinking you're just a jealous miserable ***** and you just want to sabotage his happiness or just see you as a meddlesome pest.
It may have the exact opposite effect of what you want and drive him even closer to her. He'll figure his whole family is against him and she is all he has.
Or she just may jump you for trying to ruin her relationship and her happiness. People like that can always in their mind find justification for their behavior.
I'm sorry but life is not the movies and there aren't always happy endings no matter how noble our intentions are.
2007-03-10 22:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how old your bother is but females will come and go in his life. Give it time and he will see straight.
Don't do anything stupid, don't play games or pranks (stay clean with the whole thing)
Nothing would be worse than to lose your brothers trust.
Play the other card and befriend him again so you too can talk seriously again. Maybe then he might come to trust you and not see you as the enemy
2007-03-10 17:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes im sure sending this picture will do you brother a world of good, no instead of having a nagging girlfriend he'll have a pissed off nagging ex-girlfriend who's going to bug him until there is no end, find your own life and get out of his. When his life is being threatened then step in otherwise let him deal with his own issues while you find some of your own
2007-03-10 17:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by Stupendous Man! 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Excuse me, but you all sound like immature kids with too much time on their hands---you better all just knock it off and move on--revenge is the stupid way to do anything---you think you have problems now??? Just forget it and move on--stay way far away fromhim and get on with your own life....and stay way far away from her--do not speak or look at her. What she is doing is silly kid crap---ignore it all and forget all about it- this is kid stuff and a big waste of time--just move on.
If you lower yourself to anymore of this stuff, you will have more trouble than what it is worth--find other stuff to do.
2007-03-10 18:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Revenge has a nasty way of coming back on you. To be honest, his relationship with her is none of your business. Íf he wants to put up with her behaviour for whatever reason, then its up to him and if it impacts badly on him and regrets it, he'll have no one else to blame except himself. If you keep interferring and things go wrong, guess who will get the blame? Personally I'd keep out of their way. Don't allow yourself to be used or taken advantage of anymore, but also don't keep putting your opinion out in the open.
2007-03-10 17:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Storm 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no...do not play a prank..
you will end up looking like a spiteful little girl trying to get attention.
Just let him and his girl friend be..
carry on your own life without all the drama of geting even etc.
2007-03-10 18:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by sticky J 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
definately do it, it sound like she's breaking up ur whole family....thats a great idea actually, may b ill try it sometime
2007-03-10 17:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Stay out of his business..
2007-03-10 17:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think you are just jealous and need attention.
well you got mine for about 15 seconds. congratulations...........
2007-03-10 17:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by best cuddler =) 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋