i ve been dateing this girl for about a week or two and i can tell she really likes me like she holds my hand and stuff like that i dont even pusher to do that stuff and i dont know if i should makeout with her because the last time i made out with a girl was in grade 7 (ps im now in grade 11) and i know i really sucked at it then. like we started kissing on the second day we were going out.(dose this mean she wants to move quick???)i took her to the fair today and i wanted to know if she wants to hang out tomorrow but i dont know if i should ask because i hungout with her today .ps im 16 .
2007-03-10 17:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by tyler h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but should i ask her to hang out tomorrow or not
2007-03-10 17:44:59 · update #1
shes probably a whore and has many stds dude i would run...run far or if you dont want to continue being a little virgin bone the chick
2007-03-10 17:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Corrie B 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Millions at your age have the same issues and questions---you all need to discover the joys of a nice slowly developed relationship----taking the time to really find out about each other--no big rush---there is no finishing line--you just keep discovering and letting it blossom at its own pace---you'd be amazed at how much fun it can be to just be nice, be a gentleman, be respectful and have fun. The rest comes naturally. At 16 you better take it all very slow...you have a long life ahead of you. Stop the smothering act--back off....be cool. We were all at this stage at one time or another--we all did the rush stuff---it just doesn't work. Work on being a fun date--smile--be nice. Good luck
2007-03-11 01:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with asking, after all there are only two possible answers. And at least she might appreciate being asked. As for making out? There is nothing wrong with kissing and holding hands, if she wants to go further at any time, trust me you'll know.
2007-03-11 01:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would like you to do is ,sit don and explain to her that you like her a lot but you are not comfortable about what she wants. Ask her to show how she wants to be kissed. I would think that would be exciting. Again tell her you don't want to push her,ask her what she wants you to do.and how you should do it. I bet if she likes you she'll be more than helpful. Don't let her take complete control, remember you are the man. good luck young grasshopper.
2007-03-19 00:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tary L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you wrote this a week ago , if you still haven't kissed than its past time ! The first kiss does not mean you have to make out ! Start with a small kiss first .Oh and Do it slowly-we like that.......Go Tyler Go Tyler ......
2007-03-18 16:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by That Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like youre in the clear.
If you want to make a move just go for it, you'll be nervous and all but I promise she wont stop you if thats what she wants.
And if she does stop you, no big deal, you took a shot.
If she doesnt want it and stops you, just let her know you like her and thought she liked you too. No big deal just move on and continue to enjoy the fair.
2007-03-11 01:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tyler...you never know until you ask. Obviously she is interested in you. Don't move too fast. Things will happen when they are supposed to. You are still young. Take your time and everything will fall into place. No one was a pro when they started dating. These things take time!
2007-03-11 01:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Nubian Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first do you like her? if so NOTHING should stop you from going after what you want. ask her if she says no she says no. about the hangin out. the kiss on the first date is actually slow if i am into a guy and we go out on a date i tend to kiss him on the first date. so she is easin into things. but if you are scared about making out bring mints or gum with you
"When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on. "
oh aND good luck
2007-03-11 01:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by mecko138 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be calm, cool, and collected, go slow and easy until you know for sure, but dont try anything foolish in a new relationship. she will let you know when it is time to go to a different level.. so try to pick up any hints she gives you,, keep very observant of her words and body language,,you will be fine.
2007-03-19 01:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not? She probably wants to do fun things together. Go and have fun!
2007-03-11 01:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by misseasygoing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋