He used to be so nice and now he's someone else. Before he was seriously nice, gives me attention, listens to me, and makes me laugh, but now he's mean, selfish, laid back, and won't listen to me anymore. My friends are telling me to not be friends with him or talk it over with him. I've already have, but he's not changing. I thought he was my type of guy, but now its a choice. What should I do?
2007-03-10 17:32:17 · 9 answers · asked by Who 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is someone else now! maybe he wasn't being honest in the 1st place! he was probley just trying to get close to you b4 and now that he has accomplished his goal, he just decided that he will be himself now that he has your friendship. I don't think he deserves you as a friend and maybe you should give him up! if you don't want to lose his friendship try getting your point across, i know you have already tried that but if you keep nagging him, he might come round.
2007-03-10 17:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just a crush right? not a boyfriend so there are no obligations or anything like that. what i mean is, if he is a jerk to you now then get rid of him and find someone else who is nice to you. if he's mean, selfish, and won't listen to you anymore then in my opinion he's not even worth as a friend so i say move on.
2007-03-11 01:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by scorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's becoming someone you wouldn't even be friends with, let alone date, then stop hanging around with him.
Talking to him most likely won't change him, especially if he has no clue you like him. He obviously is changing for whatever reason.
If he does know you like him, consider that he is doing this to push you away and make you NOT like him.
You could ask him what has gotten into him or what is going on in his life, but leave it at that. If nothing changes and he is not willing to share or change, walk away.
If he misses you in his life, he'll come around. If not, you lost a friend, but he was obviously not meant to be anything more.
2007-03-11 01:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by reginachick22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you decide not to be friends with him anymore be a friend one last time and definitely tell him why.you can't hang out with him anymore. Give him examples of how he has changed so he will be able to see it for himself. Maybe he's hanging out with people that are a bad influence and maybe he'll see he needs to make a choice and he'll choose his friendship with you over the others.
2007-03-11 01:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Hopeful girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest you move on because in his own way I feel that is what he wants you to do, probably to avoid looking the bad guy. He's giving you clear signals, if you have talked it over and nothing changed - move on. You owe it to yourself.
2007-03-11 01:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just be urself... u are not living for him so wad??? is he the onii person in singapore which is hansome or smart juz be urself find a good one tat suites u and see his character before growing a friendship wif him
2007-03-11 01:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by sweetycrips 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you still like him? I would cut off the friendship if it's starting to annoy you but if it doesn't then don't but If you still like him but the way he's acting gets on your nerves then deffinatly cut it off!
2007-03-11 01:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Keira Mantia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's changing to fit you.
if you give him the wrong signs, he will change to that.
so yea
2007-03-11 01:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by best cuddler =) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother
2007-03-11 03:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋