characterwise. We could nt inspect anything bfore marriage. Hubby is bit fine but after 1 month he dances according to the tunes of his mother.I dnt want the history to be repeated like his elder brother's who wife was il treated by in laws and at present fighting for divorce after surviving in tht house fr 3 yrs.These people mentally torture. They have destroyed 11 life.My mother in law has broken up relation with her in laws and has grt intimacy for her parents. Father in law is a puppet.Brother in law is a recovery agent. Earlier wz told to us that he is a brnch manager. Well, my hubby does not act according to his brains. I ask him to take a separate house nearby only so that i m secured. Wht to do? Nobody is there to help me.Hubby says tolerate and then we will see later.People who r very well known to them says not to go bcoz its a very unhealthy family.Except fr my hubby, everybody is a gone case.
2007-03-10 17:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by bina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds a bit low rent. Why not leave this schmuck and go back to school?
2007-03-10 17:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set your standards NOW!
Don't let inlaws talk around you, staghten them out up front with usband present!
And if they B.S. you then tell them it's not going to work on you and if they push you it's goingto be ugly for them and your husband.
Then tell husband he's got 30 day's to find you both a new house to live in at ONCE!
you don't have to take mental torture form anyone .
2007-03-10 17:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the adventure that your heart isn't permitting then stick on your heart . you are able to wait and watch his habit for it slow and if he's undemanding to then you definitely you certainly do no longer might desire to fret . Now shall we come on your recommendations , might desire to be going via lot of issues, multitasking . ought to I stay or pass on ? What abt young infants ? possibly it grew to become into no longer something emotional blah blah blah See there are circumstances in a courting while one might purely pass off the line . Your husband is often sorry for what he does . You and the infants seem significant to him . You did no longer point out hows his recommendations-set in direction of you and the infants . If he's a strong individual and that's only one flaw which he's having then i assume you men ought to sit down down mutually and artwork it out . no person is ideal . i'm no longer justifying what your husband has carried out to you , no longer as quickly as yet two times . All i'm asserting is this might desire to be his weak point and not his nature or something he enjoys doing . power ingredient must be you . stability this together with his beneficial attributes . Whichever weighs extra provide you your answer .
2016-10-18 02:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't marry the in laws. Put them off to the side and deal with the hubby. They have nothing to do with your situation and if your hubby doesn't want to live a normal life with you, ship his *** back home to Momma.
2007-03-11 03:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by jacquie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expect and prepare for the worst.
Do your best to stay away. Try to move in a place away from them and don't get sucked in.
And always keep your mouth shut and ears open when you are forced to be there. Nod and agree when you have to and do what you want when away from them. And keep your hubby away from them too.
You don't marry your inlaws, but sometimes it sure feels like it.
2007-03-10 17:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by Chali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to put your foot down to hubby. Why would a young newly married want to live with their in-laws? If it were me I'd give him an ultimatum, move with me or stay there without me. Staying won't make a happy, healthy relationship.
2007-03-10 17:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....I would really talk to the hubby and get him to understand that things aren't going well and that you two NEED to be on the same page before something happens because of the inlaws....
2007-03-10 17:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by amymrgrt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, then he is hopefully he is emotionally seprerated enough to leave the unhealthines behind and embrass his life wiht you.
2007-03-10 17:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking vowels out of words doesnt make you cool or easy to understand ..... srry
2007-03-10 17:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by Stupendous Man! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ur husband is right. Be patient.
2007-03-10 17:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋