Our relationship was rocky but I have never felt that way about anybody else I've ever been with. I love him and he thinks I'm an indecisive commitment-phobe who is bored of him. I love him because of his mind and heart and I know that's why he loved me, too. I'm normally a superficial ****** and that's why he doesn't want to be mine. How do I convince him that I'm not just "collecting" guys? How do I convince him that he means more to me than anyone else I could ever date out of boredom? Please tell me something useful. I have tried and tried and now I'm afraid he thinks I'm a psycho.
2007-03-10 17:54:25 · 11 answers · asked by Breez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actions speak louder than words.
2007-03-10 17:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Halley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The tricky thing about love/relationships etc is that you cannot convince anyone of anything - either they see your love loud and clear or they don't - you cannot control the eyes on another man's heart. Good luck!
2007-03-11 01:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by assezaime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know that you love him, but step back a bit and think about if you want to be with someone who doesn't' believe you when you say you love him. In a way he's saying - your love is not good enough for me. Be careful.
2007-03-11 01:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. You shouldn't have to beg someone or convince them that you love them. If you want him to see how much you care, then be loyal and loving and compassionate. If he doesn't buy it, then I suggest you move on and find someone a little less complicated.
2007-03-11 03:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you love him or you demonstrate it? Because if you don't, show him just don't say that you love him. Let him know he's the only one you want and can't live without.
2007-03-11 01:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can pleasure him ever if he feel uncomfortable. He will still enjoy. Pleasure him anytime you can. In the bedroom ect.
2007-03-11 01:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by andrew h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sincere words can go a long ways. Like L. U. bd
2007-03-11 01:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him directly and stay calm and express your love to him.
2007-03-11 01:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried telling him all this? or do something nice for him to prove you love him
2007-03-11 01:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him your affection. always say you love him. complement and appreciate everything that he did or do for you.
2007-03-11 03:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋