Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

is it always the persons fault?? (not talking about myself by theway)

2007-03-08 06:49:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i want to get married once im older but i think it might get boring and it wont be the same as being in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship....n i also plan to stay abstinant until marriage so marriage is a plus for me......

2007-03-08 06:49:13 · 18 answers · asked by Classic Beauty 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-08 06:48:14 · 31 answers · asked by freeradical98 1 in Family

Whenever I hang out with this girl I like and her friends, they always smoke in my car!, I said it was ok at first but now its really messing me up even with the windows open. Whenever I drop them off when they have to leave I always come home with my heart racing and I lose my appetite for some reason. What should I say to them? I just can't handle the smoking anymore. Its not so much the smell or anything its more of what it does to my health. I don't see her that much so usually the next day I feel better, but at first I said it was ok for them to smoke, but now I'm thinking I might tell them that I can't be in the car when you smoke, and then if they do decide to smoke should I just pullover to the side or stop at like a gas station and pretend I have to get something just so that I can get out of the car? what made it worse today was the fact that I have a really bad cold!. I still like hanging out with them bcuz they are fun to hang out with I just don't like it when they smoke.

2007-03-08 06:47:17 · 29 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a very capable, educated , professional woman. I make executive business decisions for a large company daily. My boyfriend feels the need to tell me how to do everything and trys to make me feel like I'm not able to handle everyday life situations without him telling me how to do them. Why do some men need you to be passive and let them control what goes on?

2007-03-08 06:46:07 · 13 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 06:45:55 · 8 answers · asked by larry G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-08 06:45:53 · 25 answers · asked by stephen h 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfreind is always pushing me and when I say no we just get into a argument and we end up doing it anyway how do I tell him no and mean it?

2007-03-08 06:45:37 · 32 answers · asked by K B 1 in Singles & Dating

Im not talking about a FORCED marriage, arranged has full consent. What do you think of it?

Do you think they may actually fall in love?
Do you know anyone who's had an arranged marriage??

2007-03-08 06:45:16 · 22 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

His friend stays anywhere from 2-7 days a week. He does not pay rent. Whenever my hubby and I have time off together, he is right here too. He says thing to me like, "You should move your shoes out of the bathroom, or When are you going to vacuum my room?" He wants to bring his girlfriends over( they change every week, my fav was the married one). He calls the spare room, his room. He hangs his towel on my towel hanger. He is just obnoxious. Whenever I say anything to my husband, he says, " He was here first." I feel that this will always drive a wedge between us and things will just get worse. He started staying here right when we started dating. I feel it is hard enough to make a marriage work with 2 people, let alone a 3rd person. I just want to live alone with my husband. Is this too much to ask?

2007-03-08 06:45:04 · 14 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Us and ALOT of other people are sick to death of seeing this over and over and over and over.How are we supposed to know when we don't know either party involved.You can't fairly judge a persons intensions by some little thing they said.Please for the love of all sanity--STOP

2007-03-08 06:44:41 · 5 answers · asked by rockman 3 in Singles & Dating

I love her , she loves me , we both know it , but how can i take a step further ? I want us to be more near to each other . What can i do ? i want to be her boyfriend . But how ?plz help me .

2007-03-08 06:44:37 · 10 answers · asked by massismlkn 2 in Singles & Dating

im 20, in an amazing relationship and everything is fantastic. We have only been together for two months, though we are together every day. I grew up with this boy, Now that we are in college, we have found each other at the same school, and are dating. Ive been through plenty of relationships and have thought ive been in love before, but nothing compares to him. I have told him i love him, but he has not told me so. I can definately see it in his eyes, and everything about him shows me all the emotions he has for me. We get along great, we are soo much alike yet compliment each other in our differences. WE are both laid back, goofy people. 95% of the time we are together, we are laughing our heads off.We have yet to have a fight, nor disagree. We are both givers, so everything has been drama free. Its hard to believe its true but he seems like my dream guy. how do i know he is the one? How can you tell you are in love? Tips for adding spice to our relationship? tell me, ill listen

2007-03-08 06:44:13 · 5 answers · asked by crazy_chicka 1 in Singles & Dating

She says she is dead to me on the romance side of things though we are "Friends". Any help on helping her forgive me, and how to make this work

Thanks all for your Help

2007-03-08 06:43:44 · 15 answers · asked by C E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is a very sensitive person. While he way away in Iraq on duty, his grandfather died. No one in his family had told him of his grandfather's passing. I thought that was very wrong of his family to do. However, they were scared of how he would of reacted in Iraq. Although, when he came home, they still didn't tell him untill he heard from a friend. Just today, his childhood dog, Rocco, passed away. I was the first one to find out and his mother told me she wasn't going to tell my husband for another 6 months! I think this is extremely WRONG! I refuse to play along as if I don't know anything. But I can't have my husband be lied to even though his mother asked me not to say anything. Will I make things worse by telling him or should I just stay out of his family's business?

2007-03-08 06:43:36 · 4 answers · asked by Soldier'sWife 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-08 06:42:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was suppose to be going to his house last week but he didnt answer his phone. For the past week he hasn't answerd his phone come tho find out he was at his x-girlfriends house. he told me that it wasn't on purpose and that i should 4give him fo rcheating on me but im not sure. what should i do about this man that i happen to love?

2007-03-08 06:42:40 · 18 answers · asked by T.Q C 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend been going out for like 2 years now and like a week ago he told meh he dont know if he love me and he dont knoe if he wants to be with meh. I was mad so i havent talk to him for like a week. Now im feeling like meh being with him is a waste of time. Is it really worth all this for meh to be trippin off all this? Would i be in the wrong if i broke up wit him?

2007-03-08 06:42:27 · 10 answers · asked by mzsweetz2007 1 in Singles & Dating

I got and STD when I cheated on husband after we got married 10 years ago. About 2 years ago it came back and I paid a heavy prise that is destroyed our sex life together,.My cliterous became infected and swelled to the size of a apple and my cervix got infected to,It had to be removed, and cliterous had to be drained!
Sergrey didn't take long 3 hours but I lost all feeling in vagina nerve damage I have no sex drive at all, was told this was likely by doctors. Now heres the hard part I try to fulfill husbands needs but have nothing to offer.
No kids no pleasure nothing, friend, he got prostate cancer and had to have it removed he's completely impudent for wife.
They came over and made a suggestion that i think would salve both couple problems, My husband would have sex with his wife twice a week!,she's 42, husband 28, and both her husband and I are in agreement. His wife is game, husband said no! Told me he's married me not her. Is it wrong for husband not to address his needs?

2007-03-08 06:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok there is this guy i like and we've went to the same skool for 3 years i never liked him before and just 2 days ago we started fliting like crazy .and i want to go out with him but i no he doesn't like me . plezzzzz help

2007-03-08 06:42:03 · 11 answers · asked by Brittani S 1 in Singles & Dating

Every day to me seems exactly like the one before. I get up, go to work, see the same people on the train, sit at work all day doing the same thing day after day, go home, eat dinner, go to sleep and I repeat the next day. I am married but my husband works nights and we have opposite schedules. I am bored every day. I feel like I am missing out on life. Does anyone else feel this way?

2007-03-08 06:42:01 · 18 answers · asked by Kimmy 4 in Friends

I'm not the Barbie Doll type by any means but I know I have some decency in my personality and I know when I talk to guys, I'm alright but why why why, do I always have to hold up the conversation? And I'm even totally cool if I ask you something and you answer and you ask me the same question but base another question on something I've said.....It's always the same silence and when I ask if I get the special attention or if they're always this shy they usually laugh and say yes or no. HELLO, shouldn't that be a clue to step up your "game" ??

2007-03-08 06:41:36 · 2 answers · asked by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 in Singles & Dating

We promised 2 talk 2 eachother no matter what happens!!He is going out with some other chic, but i still like him.I get really mad!!!!!

2007-03-08 06:41:08 · 30 answers · asked by Mrs.Attitude 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with My boyfriend for a year and 3 months and we love each other alot , and im happy with him but for some reason i cant love him the way i loved my EX ... I felt more love for my ex and now with my boyfriend i know i love him but i just dont feel the same as i did with my past relationship. what could it be .. is it that i still love my ex bf

2007-03-08 06:41:00 · 2 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I cant help it but my daughter is so sexy, she's 19 and she be wearing tight jeans that show off her nice plump booty, and cut off shirts. I get happy everytime she comes around but jealous when she brings a boy home! What do I do?

2007-03-08 06:40:39 · 31 answers · asked by candyman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 06:40:18 · 14 answers · asked by isa a 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

can you still love a person even if he cheated you? or can you still love him eventhough you dont trust him?

2007-03-08 06:39:20 · 19 answers · asked by pebblesC 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am having a Lingerie shower thrown for me next friday night, I'm really excited, but the thought crossed my mind of how the heck do you write a thank you note to someone who gave you a nightie or thong or something w/o being just totally sexual?! Or do you even write thank-you notes for them? I don't think I have ever gotten one back from goin to a lingerie shower now that I think of it. I am majorly into doing things properly and following ettiqueute, I have promptly thanked everyone with a nice note who has sent us a gift so far w/in a week......so I don't wanna just skip it if I'm supposed to! What do you do?

2007-03-08 06:39:15 · 15 answers · asked by ASH 6 in Weddings

i think i have a 1st date problem. I find myself having sex on the 1st date.
uasally i get no phone calls after ward or the realtaship is ended shortly.
tell me, do i have a problem?

2007-03-08 06:38:55 · 4 answers · asked by sf 1 in Singles & Dating

okay I really like this boy but he has a girlfriend but he told me he really likes me but doesn't know how to tell his girl but then we have this big arguement about me talking to other boys but his gf was just at his house some weeks ago I tried talking and writing him but now he won't have anything to do with me I know I should just move on but it's like he's just apart of me and I don't know how to forget him and besides he's in all of my classes!!!

2007-03-08 06:38:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating