Why do I have to hold up the conversation?

Question

I'm not the Barbie Doll type by any means but I know I have some decency in my personality and I know when I talk to guys, I'm alright but why why why, do I always have to hold up the conversation? And I'm even totally cool if I ask you something and you answer and you ask me the same question but base another question on something I've said.....It's always the same silence and when I ask if I get the special attention or if they're always this shy they usually laugh and say yes or no. HELLO, shouldn't that be a clue to step up your "game" ??

*LoL* But it's a turn off for me when I'm doing all the talking besides don't men hate it when women talk and talk and talk and talk and talk...Wouldn't they prefer watching a game while their woman brings them a beer with duct tape on their mouth ?? I don't get it.....I'm not expecting to have Brad Pitt but someone with brains please, would be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

i have always found it a nice quality to be able to hold up a conversation but so should a woman because it shows alot, things like how smart you are and how up-to-date you are on things, alsothe length of the conversation shows how interested you are in a guy.Both parties should "Step their game up"

Answer 2

You are a good conversationalist...
An excellent trait..
Great girl...
Many men appreciate this talent..
Don't feel bad about having this gift...
It is an asset, like beauty and intelligence...