i think i have a 1st date problem. I find myself having sex on the 1st date.
uasally i get no phone calls after ward or the realtaship is ended shortly.
tell me, do i have a problem?
2007-03-08 06:38:55 · 4 answers · asked by sf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you give yourself so fully on just the first date then yes, it is a problem. No one wants to fall in love or settle down with someone that gave it up so easily. To some people sex is a really casual thing, but to the majority of people it's something important and special. It sounds like you're hooking up with people who only want you for that. Do you want the person you fall in love with to really get to know you first?? It's so much better when you're having sex with that one important person that matters the most. Chances are, people are going to begin to talk about you and your reputation will be ruined. You're going to get used and played on because everyone going to know that you're easy. Next time, wait it out, don't jump into the sack every time someone takes you out. You'll earn much more respect from others and from yourself if you just WAIT!
2007-03-08 06:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by devious805er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a lady you are not suppose to have sex on your 1st date in order for the guy not to take you so cheap.You shouldn't have ended the relationship like that cos the mistake has been made so that the guy wont start feeling like a champion
2007-03-08 14:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by glogold84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have a problem with your sexuality- but you do have a problem with your timing. Men like Challenges so make it a chalenge for them- now i'm not saying become a born again virgin- i'm saying give it 3 dates or 3 weeks- whatever comes first. You might want to think about becoming a swinger- its a NSA relationship- and they often call back just to have fun again.
2007-03-08 14:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by marq_wilkins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes...you're a girl right? well, from what i see, men are using you for their pleasure. you have to watch out. you have to get to know the person well before you have sex. Sex is a sacred thing, im not saying this out of religion. You wouldn't want to be branded as a slut right? watch out for yourself and don't let those men trick you. I know you're better than that.
2007-03-08 14:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by <Xariel the Stray> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋